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Could you throw a cuddly toy in the bin?

36 replies

mimblewimble · 12/01/2025 09:44

I can't do it. I have to give them to charity shops and hope/pretend they'll find a new home. That's the only way my (teenage) children will ever agree to get rid of any too. I know it's illogical!

Does anyone else feel very attached to their kids' soft toys?

(To be clear, while I do have one very old and tatty teddy I've kept from my childhood, I'm talking about the children's toys here.)

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ShadowsOfTheDays · 12/01/2025 10:51

Oh god yeah, in the skip they go! I LOVE getting rid of stuff though.

Ponoka7 · 12/01/2025 10:53

If they are clean and intact, I know of animal charities that want them. Any good ones, MLP/Stitch etc always go to charities. If my own pets have been on them, in the bin they go.

HappydaysArehere · 12/01/2025 11:09

No you can’t. It’s impossible. Just look at their little faces. I am elderly and my friend Is too. We have teddy bears and a squirrel which belonged to my children. We found ourselves talking to them. However, when she said Sammy Squirrel looked cross eyed I was afronted and said he would now need counselling ! My (then) friend said he was too easily upset. Cross eyed I ask you!!! What a cheek. She is in her seventies and I am 83.

RealHousewivesOfTaunton · 12/01/2025 11:12

I have often taken the kids' soft toys to the charity shop, but only in good condition with the labels attached. The ragged ones stay with me!

Jollygirlouted · 12/01/2025 11:13

No of course not! Have you never watched Toy Story! 😆🥰

Letsbe · 12/01/2025 11:16

Great for school.fairs adopt a cuddly toy tombola every ticket wins. Nothing like seeing them go to clutter someone elses home.

zaxxon · 12/01/2025 11:23

Our school fair used to have a huge pile of them going for 50p each. One year I glanced at it and lighted upon a duplicate of DD's favourite small, obscure, hard-to-find soft toy. Instantly I dived in, yelping, and snatched it ... and it turned out to be an absolute godsend later that year when we lost the original.

Moral of the story is - that little cuddly toy may mean nothing to you or your kids, but it could be special to someone!

WhineAndWine1 · 12/01/2025 11:31

I really can't get that attached to stuffed animals. If they need chucked they get chucked. I'm just not that sentimental 🤷‍♀️

CasperGutman · 12/01/2025 11:32

I can throw anything in the bin. But I have to make the move irreversible so I can't have second thoughts later. So: cut the head off, and shove the thing right in the bottom of the bin where I can't see it.

The same goes for kids' artworks: destroy them immediately, before I have a change of heart, and never ever leave them where a child could find the evidence.

CoolPlayer · 12/01/2025 11:39

FilthyforFirth · 12/01/2025 09:53

I thought charity shops didnt accept cuddly toys?! I have so many my boys dont want anymore that aren't sentimental (we have a massive family and they honeslty have loads, we keep their faves obviously!) and would love to get rid!

Charity shops do accept cuddly toys x

TorroFerney · 12/01/2025 11:46

Nope. I also feel bad for them being in cupboards ! I read somewhere that it can be a trauma response to a difficult childhood ie when your animals (oh god I don’t even call them toys) have been your friends and you’ve been alone in your room and turned to them for comfort. So that’s my excuse!

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