I have always eaten reasonably well, I had a food allergy in my teens/20s that forced me into cooking from scratch and I just carried on.
It somehow resolved itself but the cooking habit stayed.
I bought the Chris Van T book and was surprised/pleased to see I was doing most of the things he was promoting already.
I'm slim/thin, low side of BMI healthy weight, and have never struggled with my weight. I dont have food "noise". I'll eat when I'm hungry, could forget to eat, or not actually think I'm hungry until I start eating.
My DH on the other hand is constantly thinking about food. He can finish one meal and then be asking what we are eating for the next. He genuinely panicks about not knowing where the next meal is coming from if we are on a day out.
We just learned of a Japanese expression "My mouth is lonely" and he thinks that expresses him to a T.
He is very overweight. BMI 35. He has constantly for the past 10 years tried to follow every Instagram diet going, and he has stuck at them. Carnivore, vegan, low carb, high protein etc etc. But what he never realises is that he consistently eats far too much on these diets.
It's a real issue in our relationship. I'll make a perfectly lovely balanced meal and he wont eat it as he is on another made up diet onlybeating meat and fruit....but he is eating 1kg of meat and 2kg of fruit at a sitting.
Finally, we have a BIG occasion coming up later this year, I have managed to make him see that he can't be dieting if he's never lost any weight.
He is almost has dysphoria about this and can't see it. He is now on a CICO diet of healthy foods, no fads and in 2 weeks he has lost 7lb.
I'm just hoping he can see the difference and continue this way, as I do worry about his health. His blood results haven't been good, but he thinks they are ok as he plays sport he can force them down himself without meds.
I do know this stems from his childhood and being left without food....I've been trying to getbhim into therapy for years. But I'm just glad atm he is trying something new that has the ability to work.
Also I suppose the point of this whole rambling post is that I don't think any diet can really work unless you do keep, somewhat, on top of the calories you are consuming.
Even after I read the CVT book I began to bake a lot more than I ever had before, then I realised I had never really eaten biscuits and cake at home before, why was I starting now. This seems to be quite common in the UPF free FB groups too