I’m now retired from NHS dentistry, I had my own practice but sold it when I was 55. Not only do you have all the stress of the job but on top of that the stress of running a business and all that entails.
Patients do have unrealistic expectations, my old boss ( I bought the practice from him) maintained that most patients assumed his nurse hung him up on the hook behind the door when she left for the night. Then took him down the next morning. I had a new tumble dryer delivered the other day and the driver recognised me as his childhood dentist adding that he “hates the dentist”. It’s a phrase that I would love to have had a £1 for every time I hear it.
As for earnings, starting income is around 40k which is guaranteed if you go into general practice as a vocational trainee. After that you become self employed and are basically paid according to the volume of work whether NHS or private. Most recently qualified will earn £80+ after building up a list of patients, working 5/6 days a week.
I never wanted to work full time once I had a family so my average earnings were around £60k a year but as a practice owner I accumulated capital in the business so had a big payout when I sold up.
I have a comfortable NHS pension and continue to work privately for one day a week. I have done a few months of maternity cover for the hygienist.
One day a week privately nets about £27k annually, before tax, hygiene one day a week can add another £20k a year.
A full time hygienist can earn 80k a year. It is very repetitive, but you work under prescription so less stressful.
Dental therapists are increasing in numbers, again you work under prescription and do some of the easier clinical procedures such as fillings, simple extractions and hygiene work.
It is a high earning profession but does come with a downside. Two dentists from my year have committed suicide, another two from the year above have also taken their lives. Not necessarily due to the job but from the general level of stress it causes.
You do have to have infinite patience and be supercool in an emergency, something that has come in handy in my personal life. When my DH had a stroke my brain kicked into work mode and I identified the symptoms immediately, knowing what to say to ambulance control meant that DH was in the stroke assessment unit and CT scanner within an hour and had had clot busting drug in under 4hours so was able to walk out of hospital after 3 days.
You do have to be a part time psychopath though. The things we do need the ability to switch off at times otherwise you wouldn’t be able to do it. It can make you appear to lack empathy, but when you e just seen a patient who is coming to terms with loosing part of their face to cancer it’s hard to be sympathetic with everyday problems but we are very good actors. I have known some of my patients for decades and treated generations of their family so I do end up in tears comforting them on occasions. And in the early days it was difficult not to take it home, but over the years I’ve learned to leave it at the door.