About 3 months ago dh and i were invited away with a group of friends for one of our friens for a 40th bday celebration. It was friday and sat eve. we asked my mum if she would have children for the weekend - she said yes although i could tell she wasnt pleased about the idea. A day later she rang and said that she would have them for one night but not 2 so we could choose fri or sat. i said ok could she dot he sat please. she said yes and said tell her the actual date nearer the time. since then I have asked her if she's still alright with this about 4 times - she always said yes and ive always mentioned date. Last weekend she asked me when it was agin and I told her. she said it was still ok.
then this morning she said 'when is it?' 'oh i cant do it after all im working'
i know that she def is working so this is not made up. she offered to do friday night nistead but its not possible for us to cahnge.
I just said that i wish shed let me know before id paid and she said she was really sorrya nd felt guilty.
My auntie is doing tit insted so we can still go but im really pissed off with my mum. she lives 0.9miles away and we hardly see her. she does nothing for us and is consdtantly doing things like this to us.
sorry to go on...