Years ago on a night out he kept trying to kiss me on my cheek which I kept saying no to and even went mental and screamed not to touch me. Then he kept trying to hug me and my friend said aw hug him if you want and I went mental saying no it's all him I've said to leave me alone
Then I spoke to her the next day about this and she saw nothing wrong with it. I distanced myself massively and only saw her if her boyfriend wasn't there
They got engaged a year and a bit later. Since they were engaged I thought things will be fine I'd go over to their house etc. I went over for a night out with my friend and her fiancé gave us a lift there. He tickled my ribs on the way out to the car. He doesn't do this to his my friend. I've never seen them be affectionate.
She has also told me they haven't been intimate in years
Then recently he messaged me about a photo I posted of myself which could be seen "innocently" but also could be seen as flirting. I've never messaged him. I told my friend about it and she's totally fine about it.
I must stress in no way have I flirted, been suggestive, spent any time alone with him at all. I will speak away to him with my friend present and have a laugh the three of us. But in no way would this imply I'm okay for this behaviour. It enrages me. I'm at a loss of what to do.