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AIBU?

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to think the school handled this in a strange way?

17 replies

Puddleclucks · 09/01/2025 19:00

On the first day back after the Christmas break parents got an email to cheerily say "The children had a surprise this morning to find out that Mrs X has been replaced by Mrs Y, Mrs X has gone off on secondment to another school etc".

Apparently it was all very last minute, but it's for at least two terms so the DC wnt see her again.

The DC (year 3), were quite confused and apparently it wasn't explained very well, someone even asked their Mum if Rs X had died!

I'd have thought the Head could have sent an email beforehand to let parents know and DC could have been pre-warned that their lovely teacher wasn't going to be there at start of term.

AIBU to think they handled it in a strange way?

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RhaenysRocks · 09/01/2025 19:04

As you said, it was v last minute and obviously parents have absolutely no right to know any of the reasons why someone might leave. Schools will always Scrabble about to find replacements - you should be thankful they have.

Puddleclucks · 09/01/2025 19:07

@RhaenysRocks of course we don't have the right to personal information, but I'd assumed (wrongly) that teachers have long notice periods and generally don't disappear over a 2 week holiday.

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LittleBearPad · 09/01/2025 19:11

It sounds like she's been sent to other school - are you in a MAT?

Quite possibly school wouldn't have known until they came back.

RhaenysRocks · 09/01/2025 19:12

Well we do, at least half if not a full term. If someone disappears v quickly I would assume illness, family circumstances or similar. Life happens and I've not heard of a teacher being sued for breach of contract. She may have been seconded to a different school if it's a MAT?

cardibach · 09/01/2025 19:14

It says secondment. Notice periods have no bearing on this. The school/academy trust decided she’d be useful elsewhere. She went elsewhere.

Aligirlbear · 09/01/2025 19:16

Puddleclucks · 09/01/2025 19:07

@RhaenysRocks of course we don't have the right to personal information, but I'd assumed (wrongly) that teachers have long notice periods and generally don't disappear over a 2 week holiday.

Like others - life can happen to teachers as well, not everything can be well planned in advance. Perhaps she has a parent who has suddenly been taken ill and she needs to temporarily be nearer to them ? / perhaps the teacher needs to move out of their own home temporarily - DV / flood , perhaps the the other school needs a teacher with a specific qualification / experience temporarily due to the sudden loss of another member of staff so their is a swap. Could be any number of things and could have happened in 48 hours, as indeed this sort of thing can happen in any profession.

Unfortunately life isn't always perfectly orchestrated, but be thankful they have found the class a named replacement. So often it becomes a stream of supply teachers , a different face everyday and no continuity.

Puddleclucks · 09/01/2025 19:16

Thanks for the replies. We don't have MATs here (Wales), but the school is in the same Local Authority so maybe the same rules apply. I was just curious really, it seems to have really disrupted the class, but I'm sure they'll settle, it may have been easier if it wasn't a surprise possibly and we'd told them the day before or suchlike.

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Spirallingdownwards · 09/01/2025 19:16

If she has gone on secondment elsewhere it is potentially because there is an urgent need at that school. It is often done when the other setting has been placed in special measures or there has been some type of incident and they need a steady pair of hands.

They have presented it to the children as a "surprise" new teacher as a way of presenting it as a "good thing".

HPandthelastwish · 09/01/2025 19:18

I'd imagine someone at a neighbouring School has gone off sick suddenly long-term / not turned up for a new role and as a MAT they can move teachers between schools.

Turning up with a strange teacher there is no difference to her being sick and a normal supply in and then being notified afterwards.

Children always ask if a teacher has died or been sacked if they are off for more than 3 days. When I was off with covid I had three emails off of separate students asking if I was returning - I was amused that they had emailed me to find out as obviously had I been sacked I wouldn't have access to them.

Theunamedcat · 09/01/2025 19:25

Male teachers are always rumoured to be paedophiles or they will have punched a student

Female teachers are usually "beaten up" by a student or unexpectedly pregnant they are usually kinder about the female teachers though

I've had three children through the education system and on the rare occasions a teacher suddenly leaves the students are always dramatic like this it's pretty predictable the worst one was some parents claiming a teacher had cancer because he lost weight that was awful it usually comes from gossiping parents

StripyHorse · 09/01/2025 19:27

Puddleclucks · 09/01/2025 19:16

Thanks for the replies. We don't have MATs here (Wales), but the school is in the same Local Authority so maybe the same rules apply. I was just curious really, it seems to have really disrupted the class, but I'm sure they'll settle, it may have been easier if it wasn't a surprise possibly and we'd told them the day before or suchlike.

It could still be secondment within the local authority or (if this applies to your school) a federated school. We don't have MATs but some schools are part of a ferderation - usually village schools.

DanceTheDevilBackIntoHisHole · 09/01/2025 19:30

My sister in law is a primary teacher. She went off on Christmas holidays cheerfully telling the children she'll see them I. January.

On 2nd January her father passed away so she had to contact school to say she'd need bereavement leave. The next day she was diagnosed with cancer. She probably won't be back this academic year.

It would have been nice to forewarn people but her own life has just taken over. The kids will cope.

saraclara · 09/01/2025 19:36

There's no need for speculation here. The school has made it clear that Mrs X is on secondment to another school. So no notice period applies. She has been moved within her present contract.

My late DH was moved to another school with a week's notice, when that school's head left suddenly. As he was an experienced deputy head who'd had a period of being acting head at his school, the LA decided that he would be a good choice to step in and lead the other school. He did so for the remainder of the year until a new head could be appointed.

PicaK · 09/01/2025 19:48

It happens a lot. So nothing weird at the school's end.
And the Admin staff - the ones with access to the systems to email you - aren't paid for the holidays. And it's chaos the first few days back.
Hence a delayed email and telling the children first.
Also GDPR - staff's personal info is personal. So if they go to another role then they have to give their permission eg like when they are pregnant or get a serious illness.
Sometimes it's just not your perogative as a parent to know the details.
But helping your children become mentally robust is school responsibility.
So if you want to be useful let them know that some of the kids have a lurid imagination and are telling others the teacher is dead so they can handle that aspect

Hollowvoice · 10/01/2025 08:59

Also, if they had to get in a supply teacher to cover they may not have known until the first day who Mrs Y was.
If they'd sent out an email over the holidays just saying "there will be a new teacher" and no name they'd have had numerous emails berating then for not giving enough information

WhatNoRaisins · 10/01/2025 09:39

It's not an ideal thing to happen but unless they were really distressed I'd go with a sometimes things happen that aren't ideal but we can cope with them approach.

Tillow4ever · 10/01/2025 10:10

DanceTheDevilBackIntoHisHole · 09/01/2025 19:30

My sister in law is a primary teacher. She went off on Christmas holidays cheerfully telling the children she'll see them I. January.

On 2nd January her father passed away so she had to contact school to say she'd need bereavement leave. The next day she was diagnosed with cancer. She probably won't be back this academic year.

It would have been nice to forewarn people but her own life has just taken over. The kids will cope.

Your poor SIL. I'm so sorry for her loss, and now her own medical situation. I hope she has lots of support around her.

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