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Why do so many people criticise vegans?

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trunch · 09/01/2025 16:45

I'm a meat eater!

However, I don't understand why people criticise vegans so much.

They aren't hurting me and are trying to save animals and the environment.

What's wrong with that?

Surely people should be more critical of me because animals are killed for me to eat?

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Motomum23 · 11/01/2025 16:32

changecandles · 10/01/2025 17:01

Drinking wine is a choice. Some people who drink wine wank on and on about it. We don't hear so many people criticising wine drinkers

Ditto people who take vitamins / people who go the the gym / people who like to visit far flung out of the way places / people who like walking

There are a million things people do for choice that some might wank on about but there isn't a groundswell of hatred directed at everyone who who does that thing other than vegans.

And cyclists.

It's just rude

I'm a little confused... do wine drinkers think they are superior than those who drink vodka and coke?? I mean yeah there's people who will tell you there's notes of oak etc but in general I don't think wine drinkers consider themselves superior alcohol consumers.
I also said SOME - I know plenty of vegan who don't have a superiority complex and plenty of other people in other walks of life who do. But this thread was about veganism - not which group of people do you find most annoying in the world.

Pinkbonbon · 11/01/2025 16:34

roota · 11/01/2025 16:10

The paradox of all the "vegans are preachy" comments (basically every other comment), is, for myself (in real life, I mean - and not on a thread like this discussing veganism) and my vegan / veggie friends, we have been socially conditioned NOT to dare raise it or discuss it with meat eaters. And so would not dream of passing comment on others dietary choices in real life (with the exception of on a dedicated debate such as this of course).

The reason being? The moment someone finds out we are vegan or veggie, we get a load of abuse and inane comments of the nature of some of those in the thread above (see vegan bingo comments), or worse. Or ridiculous hypothetical arguments about being stuck on a desert island with a pig, as another poster raised. Or called rabbits or "sickly" "ill", anaemic etc. etc. Due to years of abuse I basically never mention it to a meat eater unless it was 100% necessary in an eating situation (and even then avoid mentioning the word veggie or vegan where possible!). I expect many vegans on this thread can attest to this experience.

That said, if you're at a restaurant and start getting the third degree about ordering a vegan dish, from an indignant meat eater who saw you ask if something is vegan, sometimes you will defend your choices if pressed, or being the subject of inane comments, which many meat eaters can get very irate about, even when presented with logical arguments.

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I once got 'your not one of those vegans are you?' when literally all I'd done was order the parsnip soup. The amount of people with a chip on their shoulder about it is actually nuts.

The whole time I was trying to go vegan I had people telling me I needed to eat meat, continually offering it and even putting it on my plate like 'just eat a little'.
It was genuinely exhausting. Glad to be off the wagon in some ways just so as not to have to listen to people banging on about what they think I should eat.

I've never however, ever, been told by a veggie or a vegan in a restaurant or anywhere, that I need to stop eating meat or dairy, had them roll their eyes when I order something they don't like or been treated to a conversation about my choices that I didn't wish to engage in. Ever. And I have a fair few veggie friends and at least one vegan. I've found they appreciate it when I'm trying but no way would they ever do the shit the 'meat fanatics' do.

The ironic 'how do you know if someone is vegan...' line, is funny because you can count on someone to say it - and thats THEM bringing up the topic in order to start bitching at you.

VoodooRajin · 11/01/2025 16:35

macaroniandcheeze · 11/01/2025 15:58

Oh we got a phones aren’t vegan comment! ✅
Is that the full bingo card now?!

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Surely apple phones are vegan? 😁

Mikiamo · 11/01/2025 16:47

macaroniandcheeze · 11/01/2025 15:58

Oh we got a phones aren’t vegan comment! ✅
Is that the full bingo card now?!

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They aren't, though. Why do you profess to be vegan, if you're not? Vegans don't use tech.

It is "Because you WANT to"? Is there a little foot stamp in there too? You have a phone because you want one and you can't cope without one. Picking and choosing which elements of being vegan suit you, rather than which ones are actually vegan.

Ridiculous.

Mikiamo · 11/01/2025 16:50

roota · 11/01/2025 16:00

I'm sorry you experienced this. Whoever it is sounds like a twat! But in my lifetime (as a vegan and veggie) I have never personally known any vegan or veggie who would behave like this.

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It's been multiple people. Many of them.

I was vegetarian for twenty years before I became disabled and had to start eating meat. I don't recall ever taking any interest in what other people chose to eat. It's weird.

Pinkbonbon · 11/01/2025 16:51

Mikiamo · 11/01/2025 16:47

They aren't, though. Why do you profess to be vegan, if you're not? Vegans don't use tech.

It is "Because you WANT to"? Is there a little foot stamp in there too? You have a phone because you want one and you can't cope without one. Picking and choosing which elements of being vegan suit you, rather than which ones are actually vegan.

Ridiculous.

What an odd comment.

So any vegan who uses a phone isn't a vegan?

By that reasoning vegans would all have to live in a hut in the woods made of firewood and eat berries.

Vegan is the ideology ideal of minimising harm and death to animals - where possible. Unfortunately, using a phone is a necessity for many people. For their jobs etc.

Some vegans might be better at it than others but it doesn't mean people who use phones aren't vegan xD

Mikiamo · 11/01/2025 16:54

Pinkbonbon · 11/01/2025 16:51

What an odd comment.

So any vegan who uses a phone isn't a vegan?

By that reasoning vegans would all have to live in a hut in the woods made of firewood and eat berries.

Vegan is the ideology ideal of minimising harm and death to animals - where possible. Unfortunately, using a phone is a necessity for many people. For their jobs etc.

Some vegans might be better at it than others but it doesn't mean people who use phones aren't vegan xD

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So, as I said. Picking and choosing what elements they choose to because they don't want to give them up, while at the same time, being all sanctimonious and abusing disabled people for needing animal products to stay alive. Again, ridiculous.

macaroniandcheeze · 11/01/2025 16:54

Pinkbonbon · 11/01/2025 16:51

What an odd comment.

So any vegan who uses a phone isn't a vegan?

By that reasoning vegans would all have to live in a hut in the woods made of firewood and eat berries.

Vegan is the ideology ideal of minimising harm and death to animals - where possible. Unfortunately, using a phone is a necessity for many people. For their jobs etc.

Some vegans might be better at it than others but it doesn't mean people who use phones aren't vegan xD

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Vegans drink water too! Don’t they know that’s a fish’s home?!

roota · 11/01/2025 16:57

Mikiamo · 11/01/2025 16:47

They aren't, though. Why do you profess to be vegan, if you're not? Vegans don't use tech.

It is "Because you WANT to"? Is there a little foot stamp in there too? You have a phone because you want one and you can't cope without one. Picking and choosing which elements of being vegan suit you, rather than which ones are actually vegan.

Ridiculous.

Because of the definition of veganism, which in case your memory is short, I gave to you earlier in the thread above?

"Veganism is a philosophy and way of living which seeks to exclude—as far as is possible and practicable—all forms of exploitation of, and cruelty to, animals for food, clothing or any other purpose; and by extension, promotes the development and use of animal-free alternatives for the benefit of animals, humans and the environment. In dietary terms it denotes the practice of dispensing with all products derived wholly or partly from animals."

Again, as I said upthread, the key words being "as far as is POSSIBLE and PRACTICABLE".

It is entirely impractical for a vegan not to have a phone these days, therefore they still meet the official definition of veganism.

macaroniandcheeze · 11/01/2025 16:58

Mikiamo · 11/01/2025 16:54

So, as I said. Picking and choosing what elements they choose to because they don't want to give them up, while at the same time, being all sanctimonious and abusing disabled people for needing animal products to stay alive. Again, ridiculous.

Pick and choose?! Vegans can’t just opt out of society. All they/we can do is make reasonable adjustments to optional parts of life, whilst still having to participate in modern society, meanwhile being criticised by people unwilling to make those same adjustments themselves (where possible)

As for some people needing animal products, veganism has no issue with that. See the vegan definition in a previous post or on the vegan society website. Ideally people who don’t need to eat meat wouldn’t, so that those who do can do so with minimal harm to animals and the environment. I’m sorry you encountered some horrible vegans. But some people are just horrible.

Pinkbonbon · 11/01/2025 16:58

Mikiamo · 11/01/2025 16:54

So, as I said. Picking and choosing what elements they choose to because they don't want to give them up, while at the same time, being all sanctimonious and abusing disabled people for needing animal products to stay alive. Again, ridiculous.

It's not sanctimonious to want to do right by animals. It's a nice thing. I'm sorry if some weirdos 'abused' you for not being vegan because you aren't able to, but thats going to be a very small percentage of oddballs. It's like blaming Muslims for terrorism. You get nutters everywhere.

roota · 11/01/2025 16:59

Mikiamo · 11/01/2025 16:54

So, as I said. Picking and choosing what elements they choose to because they don't want to give them up, while at the same time, being all sanctimonious and abusing disabled people for needing animal products to stay alive. Again, ridiculous.

You're choosing to ignore the comments I made earlier about your accusation of ableism. I"m sorry that you experienced the ableist comments, but they do not reflect either the definition of veganism (as provided to you earlier) or the views of the majority of vegans. You just happened to meet some idiots.

VoodooRajin · 11/01/2025 17:00

Motomum23 · 11/01/2025 16:32

I'm a little confused... do wine drinkers think they are superior than those who drink vodka and coke?? I mean yeah there's people who will tell you there's notes of oak etc but in general I don't think wine drinkers consider themselves superior alcohol consumers.
I also said SOME - I know plenty of vegan who don't have a superiority complex and plenty of other people in other walks of life who do. But this thread was about veganism - not which group of people do you find most annoying in the world.

Poss wine drinking not a good comparison as both being vegan and cycling are good for the planet

roota · 11/01/2025 17:05

I mean if the vegans ate their phones... then maybe you have a point @Mikiamo 😂

TeaAndTattoos · 11/01/2025 17:16

Because most of them are self righteous knobs who like to virtue signal and act superior and criticise to hell any and all meat eaters like we are the devil himself. They aren’t doing it because they care about animals they are doing it because it’s the in thing at the minute and it makes them feel like they are better than everyone else. They are the vegan equivalent of the Bible bashers that stand on the street shouting at people about Jesus. Someone people like to use anything as a stick to beat people with because they aren’t doing the same thing before too long they will all find something else to act high and mighty about.

macaroniandcheeze · 11/01/2025 17:19

I’m convinced that the more someone hates vegans the fewer they actually know in real life.

roota · 11/01/2025 17:19

and @macaroniandcheeze the more they are likely to be one of those types that likes to start on vegans, completely unprovoked, giving them abuse.

Pinkbonbon · 11/01/2025 17:20

TeaAndTattoos · 11/01/2025 17:16

Because most of them are self righteous knobs who like to virtue signal and act superior and criticise to hell any and all meat eaters like we are the devil himself. They aren’t doing it because they care about animals they are doing it because it’s the in thing at the minute and it makes them feel like they are better than everyone else. They are the vegan equivalent of the Bible bashers that stand on the street shouting at people about Jesus. Someone people like to use anything as a stick to beat people with because they aren’t doing the same thing before too long they will all find something else to act high and mighty about.

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How many times have you actually experienced what you've described?

Sorry but it's bullshit. I've never met a vegan like you describe. I mean im sure they exist but they're not representative of all vegans. I've seen vegan activist take things too far but that's not the same thing.

It's you that's being a zealot to be so judgey of people who are, largely, simply trying to do right by animals. It's you thats prejudiced.

VoodooRajin · 11/01/2025 17:26

TeaAndTattoos · 11/01/2025 17:16

Because most of them are self righteous knobs who like to virtue signal and act superior and criticise to hell any and all meat eaters like we are the devil himself. They aren’t doing it because they care about animals they are doing it because it’s the in thing at the minute and it makes them feel like they are better than everyone else. They are the vegan equivalent of the Bible bashers that stand on the street shouting at people about Jesus. Someone people like to use anything as a stick to beat people with because they aren’t doing the same thing before too long they will all find something else to act high and mighty about.

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You sound rather angry, perhaps too much red meat...

5128gap · 11/01/2025 17:30

Mikiamo · 11/01/2025 16:47

They aren't, though. Why do you profess to be vegan, if you're not? Vegans don't use tech.

It is "Because you WANT to"? Is there a little foot stamp in there too? You have a phone because you want one and you can't cope without one. Picking and choosing which elements of being vegan suit you, rather than which ones are actually vegan.

Ridiculous.

What is ridiculous is putting forward perfect as the enemy of good. Anyone who participates in modern society, and most of us don't have a choice, will struggle to live a 100% vegan lifestyle. Why would you sneer at people who are managing 90%? Even 50%, with a few vegan days a week is better than none at all, so why would you want to scrutinise people for failure, rather than acknowledge their success? Seems rather mean spirited to me.

roota · 11/01/2025 17:34

Well said @5128gap

Reading back through the thread, the some of the comments and hatred towards vegans reminds me of the frothing at mouth types that frequent the comments section of the Daily Mail.

Mikiamo · 11/01/2025 17:38

Being vegan is not a measure of success in any way, shape or form to me. I couldn't care less what people choose to put in their mouths. Not eating animals doesn't make a person any better than anyone else. If most vegans weren't ableist, they wouldn't even be on my radar.

roota · 11/01/2025 17:42

Mikiamo · 11/01/2025 17:38

Being vegan is not a measure of success in any way, shape or form to me. I couldn't care less what people choose to put in their mouths. Not eating animals doesn't make a person any better than anyone else. If most vegans weren't ableist, they wouldn't even be on my radar.

The majority vegans aren't ableist. Yet again you ignored my posts pointing out to you the official definition of veganism, provided twice above.

Seems like you have some deeply ingrained prejudice here. Tarring all vegans with the same brush based on the behaviour of one or two random twats.

Vegans are not all exactly the same. There are people of all types, opinions and different views. We are not a homogenous mass.

You wouldn't judge a race of people based on the behaviour of a couple. So why are you happy to do it to vegans? Prejudice?

But you seem determined to ignore the facts, and spout this prejudiced nonsense.

5128gap · 11/01/2025 17:44

Mikiamo · 11/01/2025 17:38

Being vegan is not a measure of success in any way, shape or form to me. I couldn't care less what people choose to put in their mouths. Not eating animals doesn't make a person any better than anyone else. If most vegans weren't ableist, they wouldn't even be on my radar.

No, but some people have different values from you. I believe that a vegan lifestyle is healthier, better for the environment and for animal welfare. So for me, every step I and other people can take closer to that is a success. If a person decides to have three vegan days a week I would be applauding that, not belittling them because its not seven days a week. I don't understand the ableist comment I'm afraid. I've not heard any ableism associated with veganism.

macaroniandcheeze · 11/01/2025 17:46

roota · 11/01/2025 17:34

Well said @5128gap

Reading back through the thread, the some of the comments and hatred towards vegans reminds me of the frothing at mouth types that frequent the comments section of the Daily Mail.

I wonder if the answer to the OP is mostly due to misconceptions then?