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Sainsburys van wrote my car off

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Wildflower1987 · 06/01/2025 11:51

On Dec 6th, my Sainsbury’s delivery van scraped down the side of my parked car. It caused significant damage and the car was written off.

It was an old car but running perfectly, but due to age and mileage the insurance payout was very low. It caused me immense stress sorting out the hire car and a new car just before Christmas and in order to buy another car I had to take out a loan.

I haven’t had any apology from Sainsbury’s at all even though I have notified them via complaints.

All the car insurance info was done through my insurer.

I’m a longstanding customer, and spend on average £4-5k a year with them. I feel like surely I should receive some type of goodwill gesture or compensation? AIBU?

OP posts:
Boomer55 · 06/01/2025 16:58

Insurance companies sort out the costs. Not sure what else you want from this. You won’t get extra compensation. 🤷‍♀️

nellythe · 06/01/2025 17:36

Skiptogetfit · 06/01/2025 16:05

The OP has done nothing wrong and yet is out of pocket as her insurance will have risen next time she renews (even if she is not at fault) and she has only been given the very bare value of her car. And then there’s the massive admin hassle and inconvenience. She’s right to be pissed off.

But that’s a risk we knowingly take when we buy a car. The OP is just being grabby and hoping to get ‘compensation’ as the vehicle just so happened to belong to a public facing company. Unfortunately, it’s simply ‘tough shit’.

Sherararara · 06/01/2025 17:42

When my DH had an altercation with an Asda van I got a voucher for a month of groceries.
When my DS got side swiped by a Domino’s driver he got a free pizza a week for a year.
I’m on the hunt for an Ann Summers delivery lorry…

UnstableEquilibrium · 06/01/2025 17:51

nellythe · 06/01/2025 17:36

But that’s a risk we knowingly take when we buy a car. The OP is just being grabby and hoping to get ‘compensation’ as the vehicle just so happened to belong to a public facing company. Unfortunately, it’s simply ‘tough shit’.

It's not "grabby" to want full recompense for the (vicarious) actions of Sainsbury's. The OP has a legal right (in theory) not to be put out of pocket at all, to be back in the same position as she was before they rammed into her car: with a functioning elderly car.

The financial recompense should come through their insurance. But once the insurer has accepted liability and paid out then IMO Sainsbury's should also apologise just as a neighbour would who scraped your car.

nellythe · 06/01/2025 18:01

UnstableEquilibrium · 06/01/2025 17:51

It's not "grabby" to want full recompense for the (vicarious) actions of Sainsbury's. The OP has a legal right (in theory) not to be put out of pocket at all, to be back in the same position as she was before they rammed into her car: with a functioning elderly car.

The financial recompense should come through their insurance. But once the insurer has accepted liability and paid out then IMO Sainsbury's should also apologise just as a neighbour would who scraped your car.

It’s up to her insurance to ensure that she is adequately ‘compensated’. If a neighbour scraped my car, and insurance paid out, I wouldn’t then be seeking compensation from the neighbour.

JohnofWessex · 06/01/2025 18:16

Many years ago my Maestro was written off after being rear ended.

I got a surprisingly good settlement on the basis that while the car was old it had been my parents before it was mine so was a known quantity whereas if I went out with £350 I could get a heap of odure

Sherararara · 06/01/2025 18:19

JohnofWessex · 06/01/2025 18:16

Many years ago my Maestro was written off after being rear ended.

I got a surprisingly good settlement on the basis that while the car was old it had been my parents before it was mine so was a known quantity whereas if I went out with £350 I could get a heap of odure

What?

UnstableEquilibrium · 06/01/2025 18:35

nellythe · 06/01/2025 18:01

It’s up to her insurance to ensure that she is adequately ‘compensated’. If a neighbour scraped my car, and insurance paid out, I wouldn’t then be seeking compensation from the neighbour.

It's not up to her insurers. Her insurers are doing the negotiations and admin for her as part of the service (possibly badly) but Sainsbury's are the people who have wronged her and owe her the money.

If my neighbour recklessly breaks my greenhouse with a football then they owe me a replacement greenhouse. If my neighbour recklessly breaks my car with their car then they owe me a replacement car. The fact that the latter transaction probably goes via their insurer and possibly also via my insurer doesn't change who's liable to pay.

BashfulClam · 06/01/2025 18:43

They won’t do anything that shows them actually admitting liability. They will go with the insurer judgement. The worry is if they accept liability then down the line you instruct one of those ambulance chasing scumbag firms they are to pay a lot more.

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