Hola guys. It’s driving me crazy how my husband never listens to me, always expects us to go with what he says, and half the time we suffer the consequences of his decisions! My husband and I have a toddler and a newborn and needless to say we have our hands full! While he is driven off of impulse and spontaneity, I am a perfectionist, very calculated and in all honesty probably have OCD. Routine and order helps me survive as a parent. Both of us are in the lowest depths of our mental health it is so bad. I feel like I can handle the demands of parenting and make it easier for both of us but he never listens to me! For example, I have an emergency stash of dummies for my daughter because she loses them every 2-3 business days. He will dig into my stash and give her one instead of just finding her old one and when we actually need it say for bedtime she’s lost the emergency ones as well! Next, I said to book a hotel not an Airbnb because they aren’t child friendly on our trip to London. He ended up getting a £200 Airbnb because he is so set in his ways about Airbnb being better than hotels. It ended up being small, floor made of marble so kids could easily hurt themselves and on the third floor so we can’t even get the prams up instead of on the ground floor like you’d get in a hotel, as well as you don’t have to clean up as much as in an Airbnb (although I always try to anyways). I can’t take it. He doesn’t take my word for nothing and it’s ruining both of our lives.