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Foodbank buying items from shops?

482 replies

girlfriend44 · 04/01/2025 21:57

I always thought that foodbanks were given out of date stock when I saw them collecting from shops and supermarkets.
I have now found out they buy items from certain retailers at a reduced price.
They put orders in. Where does the money come from to purchase?
Also they have vans, which cost money in petrol etc.
Anyone else think the same, never realised they were collecting stuff they had ordered in. I thought it was donated to them?÷

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Cocomelonhater · 04/01/2025 22:18

I volunteered at one through work before Christmas. It is shocking the amount of out of date crap people donate.

Maybe it’s just me, but your diet would be pretty grim if you relied on the stuff donated, a lot of tinned stuff. They used the money donated to buy fresh stuff which they give out that day.

What was surprising was the amount of ‘returns’ perhaps showing that if the had more cash donations they could give out what was really needed.

RegulatorsMountUp · 04/01/2025 22:18

WiseLurker · 04/01/2025 22:11

Have you ever seen the episode of Rich Kids Go Homeless where the stuck up princess girl waxes lyrical about how she would better her own life if she was homeless, then within one night she's in tears because she's hungry and has realised she hasn't actually got anywhere to sleep..

That's what your comment reeks of.

But they're not homeless, they're on mumsnet so presumably with wifi/on a phone etc and comfortable enough to be scrolling mumsnet so this doesn't relate.

Nerdlings · 04/01/2025 22:18

What do you have against food banks OP?

I suspect it’s the people who use them that you have a problem with?

Nanny0gg · 04/01/2025 22:19

girlfriend44 · 04/01/2025 22:13

Fair enough, but who pays the van and the running costs?

Donations

They're a charity

Tryingtokeepgoing · 04/01/2025 22:20

girlfriend44 · 04/01/2025 22:13

Fair enough, but who pays the van and the running costs?

There are many people, me included, who donate money to food banks so that they can operate and buy the things they need. Otherwise they only end up with what’s going out of date or is overstocked or that people in supermarkets think they’d like as donations.

Which I imagine means a lot of short dated fresh food that people might not have the facilities or be able to afford to cook, such as mince, and a lot of dried food like pasta and rice. When what they probably need is tinned food, toiletries and things that can be cooked without too much energy. No point giving someone who can’t afford food a cut of meat that needs 3 hours in the oven to cook, or lentils that need to be soaked for hours.

girlfriend44 · 04/01/2025 22:20

Nerdlings · 04/01/2025 22:18

What do you have against food banks OP?

I suspect it’s the people who use them that you have a problem with?

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Always one isn't there.
Trying to read into something that wasn't there.
It was a genuine question.

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LittleRedRidingHoody · 04/01/2025 22:20

@WiseLurker there are normally lists on the collection bins. I've also got an app that tells me what is urgently needed at our local banks. I'm sure lovely Christmas pudding/jams go down a treat - it's more the bizarre ingredients that don't get wanted/taken.

SantaBakula · 04/01/2025 22:20

Slightly off topic but now that many people shop on line and get their shopping delivered I thought that not as much would get donated.
So I got in touch with tesco and asda and asked if there was a way a extra page could be added to their shopping page so we could buy things and automatically get them pit in the donations box .

Both shops said it wasn't practical. Really? that seems like a brush off to me.
I know I could donate £s but I can't always guarantee that I can afford a DD each month.

YesIReallyDidOK · 04/01/2025 22:20

RegulatorsMountUp · 04/01/2025 22:08

Probably just avoid bread and eat what I could eat which didn't contain allergens. I certainly wouldn't ask a charity to buy in specific foods for me. Then I'd work my arse off to feed myself and family from my own means 🤷‍♀️

And if working your arse off didn't earn you enough money to pay rent, bills, essentials and food, what would you do?

If you were disabled and couldn't earn enough (and benefits don't cover it) to pay for rent, bills, essentials and food, what would you do?

I understand it's hard to comprehend that minimum wage and benefits aren't enough to afford a basic standard of living in some areas. I understand that it's hard for a person who has never had no money to comprehend that people can't just spend £1 and have something. But please, at least, try to understand basic maths, compassion, and empathy.

Catza · 04/01/2025 22:20

RegulatorsMountUp · 04/01/2025 22:08

Probably just avoid bread and eat what I could eat which didn't contain allergens. I certainly wouldn't ask a charity to buy in specific foods for me. Then I'd work my arse off to feed myself and family from my own means 🤷‍♀️

A lot of people in poverty are already working their arse off. But they need somewhere to live, a lot of the time they need to pay for childcare in order to be able to work their arse off. This costs money which takes away from the food budget. You can't be that naive not to realise it.
To illustrate, band 5 NHS worker on 37,5 h contract takes home £1950. Full day nursery fee in South West is £109 per day. This is £980 per month of you count 15 free hours. Rent for a one bedroom flat is approximately £995 per month. And that is all your money gone. If you are a two person household, things are better but not by much because you still have to pay your bills, transport to work, clothes on your back... There is usually very little left for food. If one of you had a disability or if, God forbid, you have a mortgage....well, we can maths this shit until the cows come home, can't we? And that's a professional job which pays above minimum wage. Many people aren't in this position at all and make do with a lot less.

DorianMeile · 04/01/2025 22:21

Catza · 04/01/2025 22:06

If you can't imagine not being able to afford to feed yourself, then you are very fortunate. What is "basic" in your world? Would a loaf of bread be "basic"? If so, what would you do if you had coeliac and couldn't afford gluten-free bread?

Some people have so little money and are in so much debt that it would take a minor miracle for them to be able to have enough money month on month.

Heretobenosy · 04/01/2025 22:21

RegulatorsMountUp · 04/01/2025 22:04

Why can't you buy it yourself? I thought foodbanks were temporary support for basics not a regular option or meeting 'dietary requirements' surely you'd just pick up the basics from them and buy whatever special goods you need yourself? I can't imagine being unable to afford to feed myself and then asking for specific foods for free from charity. Maybe I just don't understand how this new world works.

What is wrong with you?

Nanny0gg · 04/01/2025 22:21

WiseLurker · 04/01/2025 22:17

Not being pedantic, I genuinely don't know how this works. Are the lists available somewhere?

On occasion we will donate things out of hampers we've received that are nice but not to our taste, say a fancy Christmas pudding or F&M jams or something, are we wasting our time if it isn't on the list?

Our foodbanks have a 'treat' shelf with all the extras people donate that aren't on the list

People are allowed to choose a couple of items from there when they go.

A nice morale boost

Soangerb · 04/01/2025 22:21

Catza · 04/01/2025 22:20

A lot of people in poverty are already working their arse off. But they need somewhere to live, a lot of the time they need to pay for childcare in order to be able to work their arse off. This costs money which takes away from the food budget. You can't be that naive not to realise it.
To illustrate, band 5 NHS worker on 37,5 h contract takes home £1950. Full day nursery fee in South West is £109 per day. This is £980 per month of you count 15 free hours. Rent for a one bedroom flat is approximately £995 per month. And that is all your money gone. If you are a two person household, things are better but not by much because you still have to pay your bills, transport to work, clothes on your back... There is usually very little left for food. If one of you had a disability or if, God forbid, you have a mortgage....well, we can maths this shit until the cows come home, can't we? And that's a professional job which pays above minimum wage. Many people aren't in this position at all and make do with a lot less.

They’d also get universal credit, help with rent, PIP, DLA, etc etc. maybe some maintenance from partner. don’t think it’s as clear cut as that

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 04/01/2025 22:22

There are some moral stinkers on Mumsnet.

H2025 · 04/01/2025 22:22

What's your issue? What's the point of this thread?

Katy232425 · 04/01/2025 22:23

SantaBakula · 04/01/2025 22:20

Slightly off topic but now that many people shop on line and get their shopping delivered I thought that not as much would get donated.
So I got in touch with tesco and asda and asked if there was a way a extra page could be added to their shopping page so we could buy things and automatically get them pit in the donations box .

Both shops said it wasn't practical. Really? that seems like a brush off to me.
I know I could donate £s but I can't always guarantee that I can afford a DD each month.

Have you asked the foodbank rather than the supermarket? Ours has a means for people to do online shopping for them, it’s on something called bankuet apparently.

Nanny0gg · 04/01/2025 22:23

SantaBakula · 04/01/2025 22:20

Slightly off topic but now that many people shop on line and get their shopping delivered I thought that not as much would get donated.
So I got in touch with tesco and asda and asked if there was a way a extra page could be added to their shopping page so we could buy things and automatically get them pit in the donations box .

Both shops said it wasn't practical. Really? that seems like a brush off to me.
I know I could donate £s but I can't always guarantee that I can afford a DD each month.

I tried that too.

Got nowhere

Surely a separate box for foodbank items isn't beyond the realms of coding - and a separate bag on the picker's trolley

mumda · 04/01/2025 22:23

Additional staff, storage and distribution costs make foodbanks an extra layer of doo-gooder interference.

stichguru · 04/01/2025 22:24

Some people will donate money as that's easier than getting to a shop and then getting stuff to the food bank. Also it means the foodbanks can stock up on anything they need that people haven't donated. I don't think they would not use fancy stuff, but if you are using a food bank you probably want a good number of staple essentials too.

TooBored1 · 04/01/2025 22:25

RegulatorsMountUp · 04/01/2025 22:08

Probably just avoid bread and eat what I could eat which didn't contain allergens. I certainly wouldn't ask a charity to buy in specific foods for me. Then I'd work my arse off to feed myself and family from my own means 🤷‍♀️

You know nurses, care workers and teachers unfortunately have to access food banks too? Or don't they work hard enough for you?

TheOGCCL · 04/01/2025 22:25

I only donate money not food. Then they can decide what they need rather than dealing with random tins of soup.

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 04/01/2025 22:25

Housing Associations give out referrals to food banks, just after they insist tenants pay their rent / arrears or put their rent accounts in credit. So they take the money, telling tenants not to panic they have no money for food, as they'll give them a voucher to visit the food bank. I know, I worked for a HA that does this and common amongst all HAs. Yes, I know you should pay your rent, but incomes are struggling to even cover social rents now. I raise this as whether money or food you are also facilitating organisations to take with one hand and give what you donate with another. I hate that food banks are needed and they are allowing issues with employment, behaviours that see food banks as top up shops, wage stagnation and benefits that should be addressed but sadly aren't.

Dunnoburt · 04/01/2025 22:25

Meanwhile.back in the UK.........

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