DP and I been together for over 3 years. Don’t live together and no kids. He stays at mine 4 nights a week. I don’t go to his much as it’s rural and miles away from both our works. Both been ill since before Christmas and not getting better. Only seen him twice in 2 weeks as he keeps cancelling plans.
Saw him with my dad Christmas Eve. Both coming down with a cold. We spent christmas apart as I had a house of relatives and friends full, he went to his dad who wouldn’t come to mine and would have been alone. Planned to spend new years together at a pub with friends. It’s what we have done and suits us.
Boxing day and I come down with a chest infection on antibiotics. It’s a day my dad wanted to spend just us as I don’t see him much. DP was supposed to come on 28th and stay till today. He cancelled on me as had a chest infection and felt rotten also on antibiotics. He came to mine for New Year’s Eve where plans were cancelled and we stayed in with a shot of night nurse. He went home news years day to sleep and wfh.
had plans today but both still rotten, I am on my 2nd course of antibiotics. He cancelled to say he is still ill and let’s play it by ear on when we see each other as no point if both ill.
i feel we should be ill together for company and I could do with a cuddle. He says he wants space to get better and thinks we are spreading bugs so why we are not getting better. he told me not to pressure him in coming round.
I am worried distance is not great and he is liking the space. no issues before except when we saw each other new years he was quiet.
I do wonder if I Am I bored and needing company so overthinking. Or I do wonder if he likes the space?