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To think young Kevin Costner is NOT a weird crush!

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Cassiopeialark · 31/12/2024 21:05

Making the DC watch Robin Hood Prince of Thieves. Made the mistake of telling them that I had a crush on Kevin Costner when it came out. Tween DD is absolutely aghast and relentlessly mocking me.
I said to DH that it’s refreshing to see a leading man with uneven, slightly yellow teeth and bad hair!
AIBU to think that Kevin Costner was HOT back in the day?!

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blueshoes · 01/01/2025 01:08

He has aged really well.

RayWinstone · 01/01/2025 01:23

Slight derail, but I genuinely don't think there's such a thing as a weird crush, especially for women... The ones that we think are weird (see Louis Theroux etc for example) just aren't. Pretty much everyone I know fancies Louis Theroux, and they all think they're a bit weird for it. But they're not... Because they're on very good (and bountiful) company.

I think we tend to believe we should ascribe to an idealised male type (see: Tom Hardy, Brad Pitt etc) but, actually, we all absolutely veer from that frequently. I, for example, seem to value apparent intelligence and kindness in my celeb crushes.

So, I don't think it's remotely weird that lots of women find Kevin Costner (whatever his age) with his lovely kind eyes attractive.

XWKD · 01/01/2025 01:23

I fancied him enough to go and see Waterworld in the cinema. That was so awful I never thought of him again. 🤣

Pamelaaaaarrr · 01/01/2025 01:25

John Dutton. Yes please.

MerryChristmasYaFilthyAnimals · 01/01/2025 01:26

Oh my days. I had endless fantasies about him back in the day. Also loved Bruce Willis and Christian slater.
May have to have rewatch of PoTs tomorrow and convince DD11 to watch it with me.

RegulatorsMountUp · 01/01/2025 01:27

He's still hot in yellowstone now!!

Annabella92 · 01/01/2025 01:27

He's an absolute babe

blueshoes · 01/01/2025 01:28

So, I don't think it's remotely weird that lots of women find Kevin Costner (whatever his age) with his lovely kind eyes attractive.

@RayWinstone Mr Costner does have kind eyes. I never thought of it that way.❤

ladygindiva · 01/01/2025 01:42

EatTheBastard · 01/01/2025 00:49

my Kevin crush has lasted right from when I saw The Untouchables - he was and is bloody gorgeous

Outshone by the gorgeous Andy Garcia in that one, in my opinion.

Ladylangstrand · 01/01/2025 08:07

DollopOfFun · 01/01/2025 00:28

Yes he fits in that old young guy group. Like Harrison Ford. Okay he looked young in Star Wars, but then became Hot Dad in everything else. Hubba hubba.

Harrison Ford was gorgeous, he hit his absolute peak in The Temple of Doom but was still lovely for decades after.

ReformMyArse · 01/01/2025 08:25

Unlike some of the pretty boys he’s aged well.

Jolietta · 01/01/2025 09:07

He was handsome in Fandango which was circa mid 80s but he has always had quite a mature look about him.

Moglet4 · 01/01/2025 09:09

Cassiopeialark · 31/12/2024 21:05

Making the DC watch Robin Hood Prince of Thieves. Made the mistake of telling them that I had a crush on Kevin Costner when it came out. Tween DD is absolutely aghast and relentlessly mocking me.
I said to DH that it’s refreshing to see a leading man with uneven, slightly yellow teeth and bad hair!
AIBU to think that Kevin Costner was HOT back in the day?!

Well, I mean, when watching RH it would have to be Alan Rickman for me but there’s nothing wrong with a Costner crush!

Brefugee · 01/01/2025 10:36

Is anyone else sad that they can't watch No Way Out again because it is just not the same a 2nd time?

LushLemonTart · 01/01/2025 10:47

Moglet4 · 01/01/2025 09:09

Well, I mean, when watching RH it would have to be Alan Rickman for me but there’s nothing wrong with a Costner crush!

Both?

LushLemonTart · 01/01/2025 10:49

Brefugee · 01/01/2025 10:36

Is anyone else sad that they can't watch No Way Out again because it is just not the same a 2nd time?

It's been so long since I've seen it I've forgotten a lot. Might watch tomorrow as picking ds1 up today from a party. Don't fancy watching it with him. He's an adult but I don't like watching sex scenes with dcs in the room. He's probably back at work tomorrow and back home?

lifebyfaith · 01/01/2025 12:29

He was as sexy as hell in The Bodyguard, that's for sure

Lottapianos · 01/01/2025 12:35

I was full on, flat out obsessed with him in Robin Hood Prince of Thieves. Had his poster on my bedroom wall and everything 😁 and then I saw him in the Untouchables where he wears a 3 piece suit in every scene and I just about DIED. Andy Garcia too - god what a treat. Brilliant film

Spot on that Costner has always looked 'old' and distinguished. I always liked a very mature looking man, even when I was 11 apparently 😁

Cassiopeialark · 01/01/2025 12:54

Moglet4 · 01/01/2025 09:09

Well, I mean, when watching RH it would have to be Alan Rickman for me but there’s nothing wrong with a Costner crush!

See, DD has a slight obsession with AR and did NOT stop going on about him throughout the whole film. So methinks she has a crush on him… which would explain why she thinks my Kev crush was weird.
There is absolutely no competition, personality or talent wise in that film!
I read that KC was in such high demand that they shot RHPOT in high speed as he was between shoots for Dances With Wolves and JFK and the British weather added lots of time pressures. Watching it again, you can kind of see that!

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Moglet4 · 01/01/2025 15:08

Cassiopeialark · 01/01/2025 12:54

See, DD has a slight obsession with AR and did NOT stop going on about him throughout the whole film. So methinks she has a crush on him… which would explain why she thinks my Kev crush was weird.
There is absolutely no competition, personality or talent wise in that film!
I read that KC was in such high demand that they shot RHPOT in high speed as he was between shoots for Dances With Wolves and JFK and the British weather added lots of time pressures. Watching it again, you can kind of see that!

You can see that but I really don’t care. FWIW I think Costner stood out like a sore thumb in that movie but that was mostly because of his accent. still one of my favourite movies of all time, guaranteed to make me laugh out loud and I do love KC. I also love that the movie made my home a worldwide destination

WinWhenTheyreSinging · 01/01/2025 22:28

EatTheBastard · 01/01/2025 00:49

my Kevin crush has lasted right from when I saw The Untouchables - he was and is bloody gorgeous

On tonight. What a treat.😍

mitogoshigg · 01/01/2025 22:30

Back then not weird, was a pin up, but I see why today's youth will find the movie stars we fancied odd as tastes have definitely changed in men

StMarie4me · 01/01/2025 22:31

Ladylangstrand · 31/12/2024 21:10

He was gorgeous in No Way Out in that navy uniform

I love love love that movie!

SwedishEdith · 01/01/2025 22:38

RedHelenB · 01/01/2025 00:48

He's got the sort of capable in a crisis attractiveness about him, definitely not a pretty boy.

Yes. Was watching him in Hidden Figures yesterday and thinking how it was a similar role to Jim Garrison in JFK. I never fancied him but he's completely fanciable.

EsmeSusanOgg · 01/01/2025 22:44

Ladylangstrand · 01/01/2025 08:07

Harrison Ford was gorgeous, he hit his absolute peak in The Temple of Doom but was still lovely for decades after.

Temple of Doom Ford, phwoar!