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Neighbour leaving bins out

81 replies

Sadsister224 · 29/12/2024 22:12

I live in a cul de sac where some of the neighbours gardens back on to my close. One neighbour takes forever to take their bins in. It makes the close look so untidy. It doesn't effect them because they dont see it because their house faces the next road. They were collected Friday morning and they're still there. WIBU to ask them to take them in more promptly?

OP posts:
Azandme · 29/12/2024 22:57

You'd hate me.

Our bin is due for collection tomorrow, but we came away for NY today, so said bin is just inside my front gate, which is where it will stay until we get back on Thursday.

It's on our property but in full view of the neighbours - getting the Christmas rubbish collected is more important to me than my neighbours having to see my green bin.

MiraculousLadybug · 29/12/2024 23:01

Mum2jenny · 29/12/2024 22:30

HA is housing association. HTH.

Actually in the US it's Homeowners' Association which is a totally different concept to a Housing Association. 🤣

Rainbowdottie · 29/12/2024 23:02

My first thought is the council won't get involved but maybe from the replies they will (even on private properties, not council owned??) So that's probably your best bet.

You say you can't access her property etc to take it back, which tbh would be the easiest solution....but can you just drag it back and leave it by the locked gate? I'd probably try that , although it's hard to envisage someone else's set up,I grant you.

We have loads of bins to put out on a weekly or fortnightly basis. My neighbour isn't too bothered about bringing them in. He'll do it when he gets round to it lol. I must admit, I do sometimes just pull them up on his drive, mainly because I can't get my car out, or walk up the pavement. I can't say they "annoy" me although I do question why can't he just bring them in?! I do feel a bit sorry for you that you just can't rid of the bins...at least I can just pull my neighbours up on the drive a bit,albeit they're still "out". Sadly I do agree with the sentiment that you can't make your neighbour do it.

ClareBaldingsChinWhiskers · 29/12/2024 23:04

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Waggytail · 29/12/2024 23:06

My neighbours leave their bins for weeks on end beside my front door all the time (end terrace, communal alleyway running down the side of the house) and it is GROSS so I empathise. In the summer they stank to high heavens. I just wheel them back myself most of the time now but try to put it out of your mind. Your neighbours aren't doing it to be dirty/lazy/spiteful/inconsiderate, it's probably just more convenient for them to leave them out

Flopsy145 · 29/12/2024 23:07

Wheel the bins round to the front of their house 😂 then you can't see them, and they have to make the effort to wheel them back. Repeat as necessary.

ACynicalDad · 29/12/2024 23:08

Sadsister224 · 29/12/2024 22:20

No, he keeps them in her back garden so can't do that.

You don't need to put them where they put them, but you could roll them onto their property if it's a big deal. I'd say nothing, it's a bin.

mitogoshigg · 29/12/2024 23:09

They could be away

MartinCrieffsLemon · 29/12/2024 23:13

LadyWiddiothethird · 29/12/2024 22:47

I would leave my bin out just to annoy the OP,how can one bin make a road look scruffy for f*s sake.

I'd make sure to move it just on to my land, so it was on the very edge of my land.

Sadsister224 · 29/12/2024 23:14

mitogoshigg · 29/12/2024 23:09

They could be away

They're not

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Raquelos · 29/12/2024 23:15

Your neighbour has different priorities than you.

Of course, you can have different things you find important, but you can't insist that the neighbour conforms to your preferences, that's just incredibly self-centred. If it bothers you enough then move them yourself, otherwise, genuinely, mind your own business.

Stealthmodemama · 29/12/2024 23:17

I need a picture - is their house on your close - can you get to their front door without walking miles?

I'd be tempted to take the bin for a walk at night - 'never to be seen again'..

Sadsister224 · 29/12/2024 23:18

Stealthmodemama · 29/12/2024 23:17

I need a picture - is their house on your close - can you get to their front door without walking miles?

I'd be tempted to take the bin for a walk at night - 'never to be seen again'..

Ooh I didn't think of that. Perhaps the bin (or it is actually two this week) could miraculously disappear...

OP posts:
Sadsister224 · 29/12/2024 23:18

Sadsister224 · 29/12/2024 23:18

Ooh I didn't think of that. Perhaps the bin (or it is actually two this week) could miraculously disappear...

Their garden backs onto my close.

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billybear · 29/12/2024 23:35

a lady near me leaves hers out for days once emptied it was very windy other day her bin was near 2 cars including mine so i quickly dragged it up near her front door it soon disappeared no drama .

User19876536484 · 29/12/2024 23:37

mitogoshigg · 29/12/2024 23:09

They could be away

We are away. Our neighbours put our bins out and put them away for us. I assume other people have similar arrangements because you very rarely see bins other than on bin day where we live.

That probably isn’t so easy to arrange if their house faces a different road.

5foot5 · 29/12/2024 23:46

Thank you so much for starting this thread.

Our bin collection is obviously disrupted over the festive period. I have a piece cut from the local paper outlining all the alterations stuck to the fridge. I checked earlier today and found that as our black bin should have been collected on Thursday it will now be collected 30th, tomorrow. I mentioned to DH we must remember.

We forgot. Then I saw your thread title and yelled "black bin!" DH has just gone out to do it.

You have saved us the inconvenience of missing our collection. Or the embarrassment of me chasing the bin lorry down the road in my dressing gown calling "Excuse me, excuse me". Again.

CheeseyOnionPie · 29/12/2024 23:55

ForPearlViper · 29/12/2024 22:25

Anyone remember Hyacinth Bucket....

You beat me to this

Nourishinghandcream · 30/12/2024 00:02

Sounds like you are focussing on a non-issue.

In our little cul-de-sac we take each others bins in.
The first person who has a few minutes to spare after the bin lorries have been around takes everybody's bins in and puts them down the driveways (on bin days they all sit at a communal point at the entrance to the cul-de-sac).
Is a neighbourly thing to do plus on days when we have high winds and/or storms (several of them recently) it saves empty bins, food waste caddies etc getting blown over.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 30/12/2024 00:05

Liverpool52 · 29/12/2024 22:42

For what? Leaving our bins on our land? If people have nothing better to do than complain because they can see, shock horror, wheelie bins they need to get a life.

FFS. 🙄 The whole thread is about people leaving the wheelie bins on the public footpaths, getting in peoples way, obstructing the footpath, and making the area look untidy.

But you knew that didn't you? 🙄

No-one gives a shit if you keep your bins on your driveway or front garden FFS. That's not what this thread is about. ALSO, you never mentioned that you keep your bins on your driveway in your post I responded to earlier. You stated that you leave them out to annoy people on facebook who complain about people leaving the bins on the public pathway.

YOU are the one who needs to get a life, telling people you leave your bins out for shits and giggles to annoy people on 'facebook pages' and then backpedalling and saying 'actually I just leave it in my garden.'

FFS. Hmm

Liverpool52 · 30/12/2024 00:22

You're very angry. About bins.

Sosayallofus · 30/12/2024 01:07

It does look messy and can be annoying, no idea why people are pretending otherwise, except it's mumsnet where up is down and the bored always seek to troll.

But it's not worth starting a big thing about. If they're in the way, move them out of the way if you can, otherwise imagine what sort of neighbourly dispute you might start and ask yourself if it is worth it.

endsnewyearsday · 30/12/2024 06:17

Azandme · 29/12/2024 22:57

You'd hate me.

Our bin is due for collection tomorrow, but we came away for NY today, so said bin is just inside my front gate, which is where it will stay until we get back on Thursday.

It's on our property but in full view of the neighbours - getting the Christmas rubbish collected is more important to me than my neighbours having to see my green bin.

Edited

That's not the same thing though is it? This person doesn't live in the same street as OP, and they're leaving their bin blocking a pavement, not just on their own land but in view of neighbours.

RawBloomers · 30/12/2024 06:50

Quornflakegirl · 29/12/2024 22:21

This is definitely a weird British thing. If their bin is on their property they can leave it wherever they choose. It was only in Britain where I heard people complaining of neighbours blocking their sunlight 😳 This is mad and similar to bonkers claim of sunlight.

I lived in a city in another country that had a law requiring you to take your bins in the day they were collected and store them so they were not visible from the street.

Plmnki · 30/12/2024 08:21

Until you contact the council, how would you know? I agree bins left out are horrible but you CAN contact the council, just do it!

if the council then refuses to take action, you can choose to move the bins yourself, somewhere else, so they are totally out of your line of sight. The lazy gits will either leave the bins in the new location or put them away, either way you won’t have to look at them. Fixed.