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People that left teaching and went into another job and ended up coming back? Tell us what job you left to go into and why it didn’t work!? Let’s share so we don’t all make the same mistakes!?

56 replies

Se12345 · 29/12/2024 13:18

Hi, let’s share why we left teaching, where we went and why it wasn’t a good decision or if it was a good decision, why it was a good decision.

So many of us are trying to leave different professions. But then we ready and people in other professions are also trying to leave: What is really the best job to get into?

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TheStarfire · 30/12/2024 10:29

Catalogs · 30/12/2024 10:26

I can’t imagine much worse than being in the police or healthcare

Yes, the guy I knew who left teaching didn't even finish police training before he went back to teaching.

I know an LSA who also went to work for the NHS doing some sort of wfh admin. She also came back to work in a school as she found the NHS work a lot worse.

I think police and NHS, maybe retail or hospitality too, would be the only things which are usually harder than teaching

Shinyandnew1 · 30/12/2024 10:32

I know teachers who have left and gone into the NHS and the police. A couple have gone into retail as well and been very happy-they obviously work hard when they are there, but preferred not having to also do lots of work when they were at home.

BelgianBeers · 30/12/2024 10:33

I left and returned. In the meantime I had been self employed and delivered contracts for a few different providers. It was great but I missed the pressure and the kids and paid holidays! I went back to an intercity failing comp and have really enjoyed it. I will move soon to a different school that is ‘easier’ then will do something else. I am on management so pay is ok and the job is made or ruined by your team.

FrippEnos · 30/12/2024 10:36

Se12345 · 29/12/2024 13:18

Hi, let’s share why we left teaching, where we went and why it wasn’t a good decision or if it was a good decision, why it was a good decision.

So many of us are trying to leave different professions. But then we ready and people in other professions are also trying to leave: What is really the best job to get into?

Are you going to share as well?

pinksquash13 · 30/12/2024 10:36

I know someone who left and retrained in beauty but came back. I'd imagine it was money related.

TheStarfire · 30/12/2024 10:38

Shinyandnew1 · 30/12/2024 10:32

I know teachers who have left and gone into the NHS and the police. A couple have gone into retail as well and been very happy-they obviously work hard when they are there, but preferred not having to also do lots of work when they were at home.

Yes, I'm sure some people prefer police/NHS care work etc to teaching. Totally depends on the person.

For me, I know I'd hate the hours and constant interaction with the general public with policing or for example NHS care work. They'd be my worst jobs (personal opinion)

Catalogs · 30/12/2024 10:41

FrippEnos · 30/12/2024 10:36

Are you going to share as well?

Oh let’s not do that thing when everyone and Mumsnet reckons that every single post is somebody trying to write a feature out of it

blackbird77 · 30/12/2024 10:54

My ex left teaching to join the armed forces and he’s never looked back. He’s like a new person and so much happier. I gave up a career in law with a prestigious London law firm to become a teacher in my mid-30s and I bitterly regret it. I’m working the same number of hours in a year (quite possibly slightly more) than I did in law, but for a third of the pay and much worse conditions. I am looking for a way out to go back into law as soon as can. I just want to take my current tutor group through to Year 11 and then I’m gone.

I’ve had many colleagues leave teaching for roles in the police, military, civil service, finance and banking, one even entered medicine to become a doctor.

I think I read somewhere that only 5% of teachers who left teaching return back to the profession for a significant period of time in the same front-line classroom teacher role they left. The majority that return go into a slightly different role (TA, admin role or supply teaching). I don’t know if that’s the exact figure but I do remember reading it’s a very low number. I may be mistaken.

Maddy70 · 30/12/2024 10:57

I dint know any that gave left and returned. They are all very very happy to be out

NoNoNona · 30/12/2024 11:01

I never entered the profession and neither did the vast majority of my PGCE group, although I really enjoyed and was very good at teaching.
Decided that I would prefer to move abroad. Landed a job doing technical writing for a multi-national company and then ended up going freelance as a business analyst in the IT world, finally becoming a PMO/Project Manager.
I have enjoyed my life and the travel opportunities it afforded me.

Catalogs · 30/12/2024 11:05

I love it. 32 years.
Love the fun with the kids. Love changing lives

zeibesaffron · 30/12/2024 11:57

My DSis was a headteacher- final straw a parent spat in her face! She left and now is in quality assurance for a university. Absolutely loves it slightly less pay but far more flexibility and less stress!

Says she will never go back.

UnstableEquilibrium · 30/12/2024 12:10

zeibesaffron · 30/12/2024 11:57

My DSis was a headteacher- final straw a parent spat in her face! She left and now is in quality assurance for a university. Absolutely loves it slightly less pay but far more flexibility and less stress!

Says she will never go back.

Edited

Out of curiosity, is her university financially stable? That would be my fear for going into the university sector.

I was going to say that the advantage of state schools is that they don't go bust, but of course with current demographic trends a fair number of primaries will be closing/merging for lack of pupils.

zingally · 30/12/2024 13:03

A friend of mine left teaching as a very experienced teacher who disliked being told what to do by young-upstart members of SLT, who, in her words, had got up there by knowing the right arse to kiss.
She went off to do an office job, but found it deathly dull and missed the busy-ness of school life, and the children.

She went back into teaching at a different school, and is really happy. :)

FrippEnos · 30/12/2024 13:08

Catalogs · 30/12/2024 10:41

Oh let’s not do that thing when everyone and Mumsnet reckons that every single post is somebody trying to write a feature out of it

I would just like the OP to share there story as per their op,

LaPalmaLlama · 30/12/2024 13:13

Not a teacher but have a couple of friends who boomeranged. My observation is that they wrongly thought that rhe reasons they left teaching were unique to teaching whereas they are also an issue in a lot of other jobs- too much admin/ twatty line manager/ ungrateful beneficiaries/ politics and alliances that undermine meritocracy. Similarly I’ve had friends leave the forces expecting that the private sector will be this Mecca of efficiency and common goals and then found out it isn’t.

SophWin · 30/12/2024 13:25

Two of my friends left recently.

One works in education for a premiership football club, the other is the safeguarding lead for a championship club.

Of course neither have returned to teaching.

twoshedsjackson · 30/12/2024 13:33

I was one of the last year group to "get in under the wire" and get a state pension at 60, and I just about made it through.....admittedly, I moved over to the independent sector, having "priced myself out of the market" salary-wise.
I kept in touch with former colleagues and would go to their leaving "do's" and I think it's significant that, after a long career in various schools, I only ever once went back to give my good wishes to one male colleague who had reached his 65th birthday, still in the state sector.
It was fascinating to find out what old friends were doing: one was designing and making bespoke fitted kitchens, one was combining an instrumental repair business with some individual tuition, one was offering handywoman services, one was offering specialist party-catering services, one retrained as a legal secretary.
Some were earning equally well, some had taken a drop in income, but nobody seemed to have any regrets. I realise that not everybody comes to reunions, but....

Se12345 · 30/12/2024 13:39

FrippEnos · 30/12/2024 13:08

I would just like the OP to share there story as per their op,

I’m a little lost myself, I’ve been supplying in several different long term roles since last February. Nearly been a year and can’t afford to remain just supplying as we wonna be able to buy a new house in couple years and start a family of our own. Teaching hasn’t been on my side since I’ve started. I’ve always had people on team, mainly SLT who never liked me in all 3 schools I’ve been to.

OP posts:
Heyyoupleasekeepgoing · 30/12/2024 14:53

GretchenWienersHair · 30/12/2024 09:46

Wow that’s quite a change! Did you have to spend a long time retraining?

I had a degree already but not in law, so I did one year conversion course and a second year legal practice course (this has changed now) which was paid for by the firm I went ti work for, and then two years training contract where I got paid to train. I switched in my twenties before I had kids so it was fine.
@blackbird77 I work in a city law firm and several of my colleagues over the years have said they would consider teaching as a backup/ better work life balance career & I just internally laugh - most of them would not have the people skills. Good luck going the other way.

SpanThatWorld · 30/12/2024 15:15

I left and spent 3 years in University admin.
Outside my office was a massive "Please will you be our teacher" advert and I was sucked back in.

Nearly 30 years later I've had a couple of attempts at escape but the pay and pension are hard to beat after such a long time. I had a mortgage to pay so couldn't afford to retrain.
I now have a very specialist role which I enjoy and which should see me through to retirement in a couple of years.

Se12345 · 30/12/2024 20:55

SpanThatWorld · 30/12/2024 15:15

I left and spent 3 years in University admin.
Outside my office was a massive "Please will you be our teacher" advert and I was sucked back in.

Nearly 30 years later I've had a couple of attempts at escape but the pay and pension are hard to beat after such a long time. I had a mortgage to pay so couldn't afford to retrain.
I now have a very specialist role which I enjoy and which should see me through to retirement in a couple of years.

Edited

What role do you do now?

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SpanThatWorld · 30/12/2024 21:12

There are fewer than 50 of us in the UK. It might genuinely be outing. Sorry.

clareykb · 30/12/2024 21:21

I left teaching (was a sendco) retrained as a social worker and work with kids with disabilities. Initial small pay cut but very quickly (18months?) Back to about where I was at ups1. Still stressful but much more flexible, better work life balance and can work from home sometimes. I had a colleague who was an hlta previously and she went back in to school for the holidays but had younger kids than me.

Abitofalark · 30/12/2024 21:34

There's a whole dedicated section on mumsnet for Education where teachers can discuss experiences.