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How to change your life around?

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theprincessthepea · 28/12/2024 20:47

Inspired by another post about making poor life choices. I feel as if everything has been taken from me in 2024 (I’m not sad - just an observation). My landlord wanted their property back and can’t afford anywhere so I’ve moved back with family. I have a teenager and baby - my partner cheated and so we are on a break and don’t know if (don’t think) we will get back together. When I return from Mat leave I will be put on a 1 day a week contract which just won’t cover my life expenses (the charity are cutting all staff hours). I’m also in some debt that I’m paying back with a payment plan. I’m coasting through right now but once the mat leave bubble bursts and the 1 year my family have given me to solve the house situation is up - I just don’t know where to start.

I work in marketing so a very transferable skill - I know I have a decent CV. I run a small business too (which has been put on hold) but whilst I was on Mat leave I received some decent press which should help my CV. And could help me pivot into a more tech role.

I want a higher paying job - I need to be able to afford a place in the next few months potentially as a single parent and I really do not know where to start. Plus I’m in London which is super expensive. My current job is super flexible but it just won’t cover any of my existing expenses!

AIBU for thinking I can change my life on my own with 2 kids in the next 3 months! What do I even prioritise.

OP posts:
Gummibärchen · 29/12/2024 00:03

Sometimes the responses write themelves, OP! You've devoted three paragraphs to discussing work, so to me it's very clear what your priorities are for 2025 Q1: better paid work, leveraging your existing skills and pivoting into a tech role. I'd be researching 3-month coding bootcamps, or similar tech/DBA intensive training, or any other means of rapid tech upskilling. You have lodgings for the foreseeable; I'd suggest using this window of opportunity and the flexibility of your current role to pour all your efforts and energy into career development. After that, Q2 should start to take shape. Choose one big goal at a time, and commit unstintingly to it, to bring about the sort of change you're looking for. Best of luck with it, and here's to a very different new year!

MyPithyPoster · 29/12/2024 00:06

You sound as though you’ve got a plan

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