This.
I hear it so often on here and IRL. When I ordered my vegan meal at a family dinner over Xmas, I got told how unhealthy vegans are as they live on fake meats and processed rubbish. This from a family who mostly eat ultra processed food and the meat they eat most is bacon, sausages and chicken nuggets. The processed stuff only seems to matter when it’s vegan. I wasn’t even ordering fake meat, it was a vegetable based meal.
I actually rarely eat fake meats/upf’s and most of the vegans I know don’t either. We all eat lots of beans, lentils, tofu, nuts, seeds, fruit and veg with occasional upfs, a lot less than any meat eater I know who feel they can comment on my diet. On the couple of occasions I’ve actually responded to their comments and said their diet isn’t very healthy, I get ‘oh preachy vegan’. Lol. How about they don’t comment negatively on me being vegan and I wouldn’t say anything back. They seen the think they’re can comment in any way they like and not be answered back
Obviously I’d rather animals weren’t killed to eat, but I don’t comment on what others eat, I’m not sure why so many people think my diet is up for discussion just because I order a vegan meal. It’s happened so many times with people over the years.
My only issue with veganuary is that my local supermarket often runs out of tofu and oat and soya drink and yogurt. They need to order more when they’re pushing vegan products.