My Daunt has early onset dementia. She is 63. Things have progressed recently. She has withdrawn from her adult children and won't see them for very long and she sadly lost her husband earlier this year. I am asking here with permission from them as they don't know what to do. She has carers but doesn't interact much with them and apparently has told them to fuck off before and refuses help. She needs help cleaning the house and reminding to eat but she doesn't eat much. She won't bathe or brush hair and refuses help with this. She is incontinent and had an accident and apparently refused to clean up. My cousin had to put things in the wash and she was angry trying to hide the soiled clothes. Her car has now gone but she does leave the house by foot. She walks to her friends house which is fairly nearby. Apparently she goes there up to 10 times a day. Returns home then goes back. She is very restless. She is also convinced she still works. She doesn't turn up to work but she is retired and convinced her work are ringing her constantly and swearing at her telling her to get to work. She also talks about very inappropriate things in public.