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AIBU?

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to think i should be able to bf in my own living room without people coming up to the window and giving me 'A Look'?

28 replies

PeachyHas4BoysAndLovesIt · 01/05/2008 21:47

I know my house fronts on to a road, but FGD! My own home and a 3 week old! [angry}

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RosaLuxembourg · 01/05/2008 21:48

You cannot be serious! Do you mean they were peering into your front window to gawp at you?

lackaDAISYcal · 01/05/2008 21:48
Shock
S1ur · 01/05/2008 21:49

Good grief that's crap.
Perhaps you should charge? You could put up a sign...

PeachyHas4BoysAndLovesIt · 01/05/2008 21:49

3 so far, all old ladies (lots around this way).

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funnypeculiar · 01/05/2008 21:50

How very bonkers. Could you keep paper & a pen next to you to write rude notes to them. Or a large 'eff orf' placard?

snowleopard · 01/05/2008 21:50

You need a large sign on a stick, ready to hold up. One that says "F*CK OFF!"

I once sat bfin DS at a similar age, on my own, in a lovely relaxed bck-to-nature kind of a way until after about 15 mins I looked up and noticed a teenage boy in the upstairs window of a house opposite, absolutely goggled-eyed and gawping at my vast motherly nork.

yehudiwho · 01/05/2008 21:51

I remember doing this when ds was wee- I felt self conscious to start with - but then you do dont you, after a bit I didnt care and I think they are only nosing into house without net curtains- i do when i walk past. I dont think you can tell if they disapprove unless they cone back to point a finger!

snowleopard · 01/05/2008 21:51

x-posted with the sign! It's obviously the way forward peachy!

moondog · 01/05/2008 21:51

Oh peachy are you sure it is not the hormones making yuo twitchy and paranoid?

pinkyminky · 01/05/2008 21:53

I live on a terraced cul-de sac. DH discovered one of the neighbours (male) staring right in at me in the lounge from his bedroom window. Still makes me shudder a bit. It is a rented house and he's gone now. But YANBU

funnypeculiar · 01/05/2008 21:53

snowleopard - there's clearly a need. We should go into production & flog 'em on ebay.

Janni · 01/05/2008 21:53

the old ladies might be feeling wistful rather than disapproving. I found myself staring at a young woman breastfeeding the other day, simply because it brought back a flood of memories. I hope she didn't think I was disapproving!

pointydog · 01/05/2008 21:54

I'd have a peer into a house on the pavement with clear windows. Probably just general nosiness rather than intimidation of breastfeeders.

pinkyminky · 01/05/2008 21:54

OMG- xposts, snow leopard- I share your or !

PeachyHas4BoysAndLovesIt · 01/05/2008 21:57

nbot hormones lol- last one was so dumbstruck that DH ahd time to point her out and the daft baggae was still there LOL!

It's probably good as I was very [bush] about BF in public but the infringement in my home is making me feel I want to go and BF outside the local Retired Citizens Club (its that kinda village... ) just to stress them.

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pointydog · 01/05/2008 21:58

please don;t bush in public

PeachyHas4BoysAndLovesIt · 02/05/2008 09:22

Surelya s long as its done discreetly

DH says he's making a sign out of light bulbs saying 'Yes my wife has tits, get over it' controlled by a switch on th4e sofa for me to hit.

(will go nicely with the 'stop wanking' one he swears he's installing in the boys rooms.....)

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kazbeth · 02/05/2008 09:23

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PeachyHas4BoysAndLovesIt · 02/05/2008 09:25

Trust me, she was shocked.

However, this is uber conservative, touristy village so I shouldn't really be surprised.

maybe next time I shall put some clothes on before I go feed...

(that was a joke btw! no naked window shows here, neighbours would throw up!)

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themildmanneredjanitor · 02/05/2008 09:26

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belgo · 02/05/2008 09:28

Net curtains. Definitely.

beaniesteve · 02/05/2008 11:07

There's a woman in my street who scowls at me every time I look into her window. Is it you?

PeachyHas4BoysAndLovesIt · 02/05/2008 11:58

very possible beanie

Are you about 70?

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girlfrommars · 02/05/2008 12:04

I remember, on a thread a while ago, someone couldn't understand why their neighbour kept her curtains shut.

Now we know!

I'd go for nets/blinds.

youngbutnotdumb · 02/05/2008 12:12

Just move LO and gve them a proper eyeful
Give them the shock of their lives bet they dont look again LOL

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