Grown up kids home from Uni for the holidays we have been for a run out somewhere as DD wanted to go somewhere today. DH who isn’t well was driving he did something daft in the car and blamed me nothing major that was ok, then DD has got into the bad habit of saying scum quite often. She called me scum (i usually tend to ignore this) then DH was muttering about a car parked outside our neighbours saying whoever it is should learn to park properly. Then DS said jokingly well you should tell that to your wife dad. If he had said mum I would have been fine with it. But I lost it. I heard DH speaking to them both about it and now I am in the front room having a coffee on my own and no one is speaking. Oh happy days!! Would you be annoyed in my shoes? I am also menopausal and already feel like an unpaid unappreciated slave over Christmas while they lay in bed and play on phones and I have to get up early 365 days a year as we have an old dog they all wanted. DH is really not well not well and I am imagining future Christmases on my own (when they both get partners).