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AIBU to ask what the practical implications are of having a criminal record?

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doingtime · 22/12/2024 20:37

I know someone who is in prison for sexual abuse of a child (under 18 rather than under 13, if that matters).

I'm expecting that he will have to sign the sex offenders register and won't be able to work with children/vulnerable adults when released.

What other implications will this have on their lives post-prison? Will it stop him getting a decent/professional job in future?

I hate the thought that he will be able to waltz out of prison and get on with life as normal, when he's left his victim's life in tatters.

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BlueScrunchies · 22/12/2024 20:39

It really hampers one’s ability to travel abroad.

And yes chances of a job are slimmer, lots require a background check and im not sure this type of crime is something that would be acceptable in the majority of workplaces.

BuzzieLittleBee · 22/12/2024 20:41

Plenty of jobs will not be available to them.
Many voluntary opportunities (which require a DBS) will not be an option.

Travel to some countries will not be possible (eg USA will not grant an ESTA, the EU will have a similar system next year, so could be an issue there too).

It may impact things like rental agreements perhaps.

In short, there are plenty of implications/consequences.

MyPithyPoster · 22/12/2024 20:42

IT very much depends what they do for a living. If they’re an IT consultant, they’ll probably be pretty unhindered.

FelixtheAardvark · 22/12/2024 21:28

If they are looking for a client facing role, they can probably forget it.

doingtime · 22/12/2024 21:42

Thank you. I'm not normally one to wish bad things for people, but this case has really got to me.

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stichguru · 22/12/2024 21:45

It depends what they are trying to do

  • probably life long ban on working with under 16
  • needing to report their whereabouts when away from home overnight
  • not allowed to stay in a house with children
  • not allowed in a paid role with regular contact with children
doingtime · 22/12/2024 22:01

What happens about contact with his own children? He has a 15yo who may want to see him. Are there any blanket rules or would any contact be arranged on case-by-case basis?

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