Tired of friends draining behaviour?

[fourlittlecandles]

My friend got into a relationship maybe 4 years ago.

Well meet up and she’ll slate his mum as being controlling and too involved. Then the next time you see her and say “how’s things with x’s mum?” she will look at you blankly and say how wonderful she is.

She does it with his sister, so many of his friends. One female in his friendship group was the devil and then you ask how things are and suddenly they are best friends

What's your AIBU?

So tell her she does that. Maybe she doesn’t realise.

I'd say in response oh last time we spoke you spoke highly of x's mother!
You have my sympathies though one of my friends is like this and in the group chat ranting about her boss and how she is gaslighting her x when 2 days ago she said they were getting on really well etc. I'm only reading her messages as one of the other friends in the groupchat is in labour so I'm waiting for updates!!