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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask how you know what to believe

149 replies

Annabella92 · 21/12/2024 13:34

Aibu to really be unsure what is believable

There is quite a chasm between what is being said on X about the German Christmas Market attack and what the BBC are saying. I've already seen enough examples of the BBC trying to persuade me of things I know with my very own eyes are not true. So I don't trust them. But I don't trust everything I read on X either. How do you triangulate

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TheKeatingFive · 21/12/2024 14:05

Unfortunately these days, pretty much all news sources need to be handled with a degree of skepticism. That very much includes the BBC.

I think the 'truth' eventually becomes clear, via alignment of multiple sources. It does take time.

Annabella92 · 21/12/2024 14:08

ForPearlViper · 21/12/2024 14:00

I've already seen enough examples of the BBC trying to persuade me of things I know with my very own eyes are not true.

Our own senses can deceive and frequently bias towards things we want to believe.

How much of the news do you witness at the time it happens, in person, knowing all the surrounding facts and history, where you can see with your 'own eyes' from all persectives - and presumably hear with your 'own ears' - whilst holding no personal bias?

Until you can do that all your news will be filtered through various media. You will inevitably be biased in the media you choose. However, the media that are regulated - unlike the wild west of Twitter - are generally a better bet.

You could consider studying some basic philisophical logic and, particular, logical fallacies if you are interested. Wikipedia has some good summaries.

That's a very kind suggestion, I did a couple of philosophy modules at uni and despite trying to keep my OP to simple language it is about the poisoning of the epistemic commons

What I have seen several times now over recent years is details being omitted from mainstream reporting that were revealed earlier on Social Media, dismissed as misinformation. Then after some time being confirmed as true on the mainstream platforms that initially said it was false.

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custardpyjamas · 21/12/2024 14:12

I wouldn't believe Fred on X who got it from his friend Burt on TikTok, who knows it's true because he got it from a friend of his Auntie's second cousin's next door neighbour in the US who is a personal friend of Donald Trump.

TheKeatingFive · 21/12/2024 14:12

The thing about Twitter is that it's not one source, it's multiple voices. There will be some on there that you find more trustworthy than others.

Annabella92 · 21/12/2024 14:14

We could play a game! We could list the key details the BBC have chosen to share right here, and then what is being said on X. Note the differences, and then all come back in 6 months and see if any of it has since been reported by the BBC - thus making it "true".

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TheOliveFinch · 21/12/2024 14:14

It is very difficult to find completely unbiased information so it is always a question of degree or reliability and accuracy, add in sources not being deliberately inaccurate but just not completely up to date. Add in the issue of confirmation bias where we look for sources of information that confirm our existing views. It’s a complete minefield unfortunately

Annabella92 · 21/12/2024 14:15

custardpyjamas · 21/12/2024 14:12

I wouldn't believe Fred on X who got it from his friend Burt on TikTok, who knows it's true because he got it from a friend of his Auntie's second cousin's next door neighbour in the US who is a personal friend of Donald Trump.

But would you believe clips from the BBC on X of the alleged attacker?

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Annabella92 · 21/12/2024 14:15

Or are they all deep fakes? Baudrillard eat your heart out.

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Nesbi · 21/12/2024 14:20

Annabella92 · 21/12/2024 14:14

We could play a game! We could list the key details the BBC have chosen to share right here, and then what is being said on X. Note the differences, and then all come back in 6 months and see if any of it has since been reported by the BBC - thus making it "true".

The BBC will be careful not to speculate or to include details in its reporting that its own journalists haven’t been able to corroborate.

People on Twitter do not hold themselves to the same journalistic standards, and so will happily report rumours and hearsay.

if the BBC is later able to confirm those rumours and hearsay then it will be able to report them. That doesn’t mean it was wrong to omit them from their original reporting though.

Crunchymum · 21/12/2024 14:21

Winter2020 · 21/12/2024 13:47

We were told that there was no indication of terrorism in the Southport killings - even though the context of the Taylor Swift class made it pretty obvious - so I no longer feel you are a conspiracy theorist if you don't trust main stream media. I don't.

I'm being a bit dense but why did it being a TS class make it clear it was a terrorist attack?

Surely that was down to people's own assumptions? Not saying it was incorrect but the link wasn't something that stood out to me? We have no idea if he targeted that class?

Anyway I digress, what is X saying on the matter of last night's attack? (I don't use X)

AmiablePedant · 21/12/2024 14:21

But why reduce it to a simplistic either/or? Why not compare the BBC, the Guardian, the Times, Telegraph, Mail, Independent, NYTimes, Washington Post, Fox News, Le Monde, the major German newspapers, etc etc. with the babble/Babel of X if you are so keen on getting the whole truth? And then doing some analysis/synthesis, weighing of probabilities.

ru53 · 21/12/2024 14:26

People from the left think the BBC is tory propaganda, people from the right think it’s lefty propaganda - given this I believe it is fairly unbiased.

custardpyjamas · 21/12/2024 14:27

Annabella92 · 21/12/2024 14:08

That's a very kind suggestion, I did a couple of philosophy modules at uni and despite trying to keep my OP to simple language it is about the poisoning of the epistemic commons

What I have seen several times now over recent years is details being omitted from mainstream reporting that were revealed earlier on Social Media, dismissed as misinformation. Then after some time being confirmed as true on the mainstream platforms that initially said it was false.

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They say so many conflicting things on SM that some of it must be right by pure chance, someone either is or isn't a Muslim and are or are not black and are or are not illegal immigrants, are or are not young or old, etc etc, if you pick and chose snippets from all over you will find some things that are correct and a lot that are false. All of it very convincing, detailed and apparently knowledgeable which makes it so appealing, compared to the vague, limited real information actually available in the aftermath of these sort of events.

Perfect28 · 21/12/2024 14:28

Anyone trusting X over bbc has low literacy

Doliveira · 21/12/2024 14:31

I wouldn’t believe the BBC. They have disappeared up their own arses.

DanceTheDevilBackIntoHisHole · 21/12/2024 14:33

SalviaDivinorum · 21/12/2024 13:52

I would compare the BBC reports with a couple of other reputable agencies.

The truth will be somewhere in between

Exactly this. Find a range of actual news sources which employ real journalists who look into things, verify them and report them. Telegraph, daily mail (I don't love their approach to women or celebs but they still have proper journos), the guardian, the times, reuters, German news sites, whatever. But not X which is unverified nonsense.

GeneralPeter · 21/12/2024 14:33

Perfect28 · 21/12/2024 14:28

Anyone trusting X over bbc has low literacy

X is not one thing though. It's a stream from which one picks out gems from dross, senses vibes, and finds reliable sources, across a massive breadth and depth of expertise from across the world. Someone who reads the BBC critically and X critically will have a much better idea of what is going on than someone reading only X.

GeneralPeter · 21/12/2024 14:34

I meant to write 'than only the BBC', but both work.

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 21/12/2024 14:35

Check Reuters

ForPearlViper · 21/12/2024 14:38

Just because a regulated outlet does not agree with your own views does not make it biased.

I have a strong suspicion that OP does not think that the BBC is so biased and corrupt that news from Twitter is more believable. I think she is bored this afternoon and simply wanted to emulate the great philosopher Mrs Merton one of whose catchphrases was 'Let's have heated debate'.

Personally, I generally like Occam's Razor - the simplest explanation is often the most likely to be correct. Conspiracy is a lot of complication and extra work. A Vice Chancellor we had when I worked in a university that was driven on gossip used to say 'it is rarely a conspiracy, it is usually a cock up'.

DanceTheDevilBackIntoHisHole · 21/12/2024 14:39

Nesbi · 21/12/2024 14:20

The BBC will be careful not to speculate or to include details in its reporting that its own journalists haven’t been able to corroborate.

People on Twitter do not hold themselves to the same journalistic standards, and so will happily report rumours and hearsay.

if the BBC is later able to confirm those rumours and hearsay then it will be able to report them. That doesn’t mean it was wrong to omit them from their original reporting though.

This is the big difference - mainstream media aka actual publishers of news, need to be careful what they print from an ethical and legal standpoint.
Any idiot can say what they like on X and chances are no one will pursue them for it if they're wrong or pre emptying legal action because their followership is likely to be small.

Alltheyearround · 21/12/2024 14:40

After Covid I am more sceptical of BBC reporting (as in it was promoting news the government wanted us to read, I'm not an anti-vaxxer but it was so obviously biased at that point) but I do read the news there daily.

I just know to reserve judgement
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MrsTerryPratchett · 21/12/2024 14:42

Getitwright · 21/12/2024 13:50

The intelligent and informed don’t rely upon a small number of sometimes not entirely unbiased reporting/repeating hearsay. There are more informed places to read, analyse and assess from different points of view. The other important aspect is not to act as though an individual or group is judge jury and executioner. Other than those actively involved in searching for evidence, dealing with the victims, questioning the alleged perpetrator, no news source, group or person will have a proper picture around the who, why, what, where or when. That might mean waiting until someone is tried and judged, but it won’t be by the press/ media. Best if an open mind is kept.

This. We've forgotten the basics of being an informed human.

Read widely, including from sources you typically disagree with. Read primary texts/studies etc. if you can. Trust no source completely. Keep a healthy cynicism of all sources. Weigh evidence. If something sounds wrong, it could be. If something sounds too right, that could be a dog whistle that works on you.

Be Scully.

TheOliveFinch · 21/12/2024 14:48

Reuters are reporting that the suspect is anti-Islamist and that the German government had been warned about him by Saudi Arabia

Sharptonguedwoman · 21/12/2024 14:50

Winter2020 · 21/12/2024 13:47

We were told that there was no indication of terrorism in the Southport killings - even though the context of the Taylor Swift class made it pretty obvious - so I no longer feel you are a conspiracy theorist if you don't trust main stream media. I don't.

BBC couldn't release info till investigation carried out-as I understand it. They cant hypothesise.

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