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Is £200 enough between 2 of us

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Sparkles2295 · 21/12/2024 09:58

Hi

were thinking of going for a bigger house our mortgage will be double than what we have now

after all our bills, groceries, takeaways we will be left with £150/200 is that enough or is it a tight squeeze??

tia

OP posts:
Westfacing · 21/12/2024 10:02

A very tight squeeze! Also depends if you have any savings.

ECJW98 · 21/12/2024 10:03

Yeah, a very tight squeeze. Are the takeaways really necessary? I would go back and look at budget and see if there is anything you can either cut back on or cut out all together. If not, I wouldn’t take on this new mortgage

EmpressaurusKitty · 21/12/2024 10:03

Is that per month? And how much would you save by cutting down on takeaways?

AirborneElephant · 21/12/2024 10:03

It depends what you’re including in “bills”, does that include any savings eg for house and car maintenance, holidays, Christmas? If not I would find that very tight and worry how you’d find the money when something large needs replacing.

shellyleppard · 21/12/2024 10:04

Drop the takeaway, sit down and go through the budget very very carefully. Otherwise you are going to be struggling

Amba1998 · 21/12/2024 10:04

Does that include fuel? Train travel for work? Does your grocery bill include toiletries?

I think that would be way too tight personally

that’s only £2400 for the year to include Christmas gifts hair cuts days out holidays

WolfFoxHare · 21/12/2024 10:04

£200 a week or a month? If it’s a month, I’d consider that quite difficult. What about presents and holidays and days out? What about savings or an emergency fund?

Thelnebriati · 21/12/2024 10:05

No it won't be anywhere near enough. Look into how often you have to replace white goods, big furniture, mattresses, windows, doors, kitchen, bathroom, carpets, underlay, and redecorate, and factor that into the annual cost of running your home.

Hayley1256 · 21/12/2024 10:05

I don't think that would be enough at all

AlphabetBird · 21/12/2024 10:08

What happens when you need new tyres on the car, or the cooker breaks? Or there’s a few birthday parties? Or if (like mine) your DC take up a stupid sport that means driving all over the place every weekend? Petrol adds up fast.

Living in a bigger house miserably doesn’t sound fun.

itsallbowlsbaby · 21/12/2024 10:08

Christ no! Do not double your mortgage unless you absolutely have to.

KitsyWitsy · 21/12/2024 10:08

It wouldn’t be enough for me. I spend a lot on myself.

Jellycatspyjamas · 21/12/2024 10:09

Are you at a stage in your career where your salary is likely to increase, any DC, TTC? It would be too tight for be tbh.

NZDreaming · 21/12/2024 10:17

@Sparkles2295 how would you cover a rise in mortgage interest rates? A lot of people (myself included) are paying far more each month for the same mortgage now than they were two years ago.

TiramisuCheesecake · 21/12/2024 10:20

I'd imagine you'd fail the mortgage affordability test and you wouldn't be given such a big loan that was going to leave you so short each month.

IdgieThreadgoodeIsMyHeroine · 21/12/2024 10:20

You definitely couldn't afford takeaways in this situation! Or any nice things at all! I'd stick to the smaller house with more disposable income.

Jellycatspyjamas · 21/12/2024 10:23

Put the additional mortgage amount into savings fir a couple of months and see how you go - you’ll quickly know if you can manage and have the added bonus of a small savings buffer.

DreamW3aver · 21/12/2024 10:25

Well, it depends on what it needs to cover, if you give some information you'll get better answers

But I can't believe anyone with that kind of budget buys takeaways, what's the story there?

MumChp · 21/12/2024 10:25

Try for 6 months...
Before you go for the bigger house.

Mnetcurious · 21/12/2024 10:27

Depends what’s included in the ‘bills’ before you get to the money left over. Sounds like you’ve got takeaways (obviously non-essential) in there so it wouldn’t surprise me if there are other areas you could cut back on.
Does it include money put aside for birthday/Christmas presents, holidays, unexpected car repairs, boiler breakdown etc?

Baconking · 21/12/2024 10:29

Definitely not enough.

What about haircuts, birthday presents, occasional meals out with family/friends, car service/MOT...So many incidentals you probably haven't accounted for

Oreyt · 21/12/2024 10:32

For us yes as we never have any spare money left but it's not a nice way to live.

If you prioritise a house and not going out then that's fine.

2catsandhappy · 21/12/2024 10:32

Too tight. At some point, say, the tv might blow or someone might be off sick from work or your transport might breakdown and you need an unexpected taxi. And on and on.
You need a much bigger cushion.

Yes, you could get a weekend job or evening job but from experience, trying to cram all the cooking and laundry and cleaning into the few remaining hours is very tiring and grinds away enjoyment of life.
The house you want is beyond your means.
Plenty more properties around, especially after Christmas when people start their 'after Christmas we will put the house on the market'
Have a rethink @Sparkles2295 in the New Year.

user2848502016 · 21/12/2024 10:33

Very tight, what would you do if something changed like one of you were made redundant or your mortgage payments went up?

Ginkypig · 21/12/2024 10:35

A month is very tight. All it would take is a washing machine or a boiler breaking or a car or a hospital stay or other family emergency etc and you’re screwed. Any one of these thing could possibly cost double what you have to spend which you can not add to for a whole month.

a week and it’s still tight but more manageable as that gives you the option to pull in tight and put away say £20 a week every week you don’t spend it so you can build up a cushion but still have small non essentials or afford a pair of shoes for work if the sole suddenly falls off or something.