NC with mother, did unforgivable things up to and including stalking my young daughter after I’ve gone non-contact with her.
Set up numerous Facebook accounts trying to harass her.
For some unfathomable reason, my brother and sister have taken the mothers side.
They are no loss, very much drains on you rather than people who you would have an equal relationship with anyway.
One Brother, I did get on very well with until he sent me a text this summer suggesting I ought to reconcile with our mother.
I sent him a list of reasons why that wouldn’t happen.
Many of these reasons are in the distant past so I’m not really bothered about those but the most recent ones of setting up numerous Facebook accounts, new telephone numbers chasing my daughter who is mental health is precarious really pissed me off and he couldn’t see what she done wrong so I’ll be honest. I cut ties with him as well.
He now appears to be having some sort of breakdown, accusing his wife of having an affair on the basis of her having porn on her phone that he admits they both look at
He’s following her around in the car. Following her home from work.
Blowing up her phone with hundreds of messages.
Phoned me a couple of weeks ago to tell me it was all over and they were done.
Asked me to call sister-in-law to ask her not to involve the police because it would affect both their careers if I told you what they did it would blow your mind.
Getting really upset drawing me into the drama and then two days later it as if nothing has happened they’re both back to normal again and I’ve been blocked on Facebook and WhatsApp by the SIL.
So I have two presents here wrapped up under the tree for my niece and nephew.
Would you drop them round?
Quite clearly, I’m not gonna be able to see them going forward. Whatever the outcome of this marriage.
In any kind of normal family, I wouldn’t hesitate but my children have never had so much as a Christmas card off either of these people. They get a text on their birthday if they’re lucky. Often after I’ve posted to say it’s their birthday so this will be the first year with blocked on all social media probably, the end of the texts.