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People who drink are even more annoying at Christmas?

37 replies

ChristmasAlcoholObjection · 19/12/2024 09:30

I mean, some drinkers are always annoying - “it’s only one” “aren’t you toasting” “loosen up you boring bugger” etc. we all know them.

But by God they’re worse at Christmas. Unsatisfied unless everyone’s drinking, plastered the entire day, insisting on buying people alcohol for presents even though they know they don’t really drink. It’s just frustrating, I think far more drinkers have a problem than know it or admit it.

I know several that particularly annoy me by being being superior about other things especially at Christmas - like one of my friends has a joint every now and then, which I’m not saying is a good thing, but honestly put me in a room full of stoners over drinkers any day, less loud, less aggressive and less likely to punch anyone. (No crime comments please, it’s legal in multiple countries and much of this non criminally made stuff is what’s here, can even buy directly online and loads of people grow one plant of their own so just stop with the slave trade stuff). I don’t smoke it myself, just making a point.

They’ll mock the “fatty that can’t stop eating” while downing their 5th glass, yet from everything I’ve read if they swapped booze for mounjaro we’d save about 20bn on the NHS and have less crime, violence and car accidents! 😂

I’m not seriously suggesting everyone should quit, thousands of years of habit isn’t that simple no matter how bad it is or even the fact that medically it’s literally poison!
But stop trying to drag the bloody rest of us into it!! You incredibly dull boozehounds.

OP posts:
OhBling · 19/12/2024 12:54

I bloody love a drink, but I am not anything like the people in your OP. I agree with everyone else - find better friends.

ChristmasFluff · 19/12/2024 12:55

I agree with everyone else on here - it's the people you know. I often drive to visit friends, so don't drink, and have never experienced this. My family are actually big drinkers, but they all always have 'posh' soft drinks for the non-drinkers, and my nephew makes some great non-alcoholic cocktails.

I would find it hard to be around people like this, and even worse to be around stoners (SO boring). There are better friends out there.

FannyFernackerpants · 19/12/2024 13:17

Roryno · 19/12/2024 12:46

My family on my husband’s side are big drinkers and loud. They’re still nice people. It’s just their thing and not mine. And they cannot understand why others wouldn’t want to spend Xmas like that. I don’t want to go for Xmas (and no longer do) but it certainly doesn’t mean I need to go no contact. But it’s tough saying no because they cannot understand why someone could not want to drink and play loud games. If we don’t go Xmas day they try to get us to do the same on Boxing Day or the 27th. I think they all think I’m a humbug!😃

Why don't you want to join in, even without a drink you could play a family game?

Dietingfool · 19/12/2024 14:05

Roryno · 19/12/2024 12:46

My family on my husband’s side are big drinkers and loud. They’re still nice people. It’s just their thing and not mine. And they cannot understand why others wouldn’t want to spend Xmas like that. I don’t want to go for Xmas (and no longer do) but it certainly doesn’t mean I need to go no contact. But it’s tough saying no because they cannot understand why someone could not want to drink and play loud games. If we don’t go Xmas day they try to get us to do the same on Boxing Day or the 27th. I think they all think I’m a humbug!😃

im a little confused, the op isn’t just talking about big drinkers, no one suggested she go nc for them being big drinkers?

she’s told us these people are aggressive, there is a risk of violence, the risk of a punch she said, she tells us they mock and call people , her I guess, fatties,

we are advising going nc due to the detail in the op not simply as they are big drinkers, I am confused why you’d think that?

Bonjovispyjamas · 19/12/2024 14:11

I drink as do all friends, I literally don't know one single person who behaves like that, so as other posters have said, it's just your circle of friends.

Mickey79 · 19/12/2024 14:14

I don’t know anyone like this. Your social circle is grim- get rid.

NeedToChangeName · 19/12/2024 14:15

ThePoshUns · 19/12/2024 10:59

Nothing like a bit of casual ageism there. Over 50s are also allowed to let their hair down you know. 🙄

I guess I feel that being hungover is an error of judgement (drinking to excess) rather than fun loving letting their hair down

So, I feel those errors of judgement are more understandable in younger people

If I see older people drunk / under the influence, I don't think "bet they're having fun". I do think it's lame. That's just my view. I don't mind if you feel differently

Dietingfool · 19/12/2024 14:16

NeedToChangeName · 19/12/2024 14:15

I guess I feel that being hungover is an error of judgement (drinking to excess) rather than fun loving letting their hair down

So, I feel those errors of judgement are more understandable in younger people

If I see older people drunk / under the influence, I don't think "bet they're having fun". I do think it's lame. That's just my view. I don't mind if you feel differently

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MrsTerryPratchett · 19/12/2024 14:26

PonyPatter44 · 19/12/2024 11:15

I don't know anyone who behaves like that, so maybe you just need better friends, who can take their drink and not be arseholes about it.

Also, stoners are terminally dull, and most of them are not growing their own.

This. Stoners are so boring.

Not to say drinkers can't be, but They’ll mock the “fatty that can’t stop eating” while downing their 5th glass? No one I know would say that.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 19/12/2024 14:35

I don't know anyone like this. Just had works do, was about 50 / 50 drinking, noone cared. Off out with friends tonight, two of them are driving, again noone cares.

You need better friends OP.

ThePoshUns · 19/12/2024 17:17

Come back to me when you're 53 @NeedToChangeName 🙄

NeedToChangeName · 19/12/2024 21:34

ThePoshUns · 19/12/2024 17:17

Come back to me when you're 53 @NeedToChangeName 🙄

I'm 57 already @ThePoshUns

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