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To cringe every time I see or hear "only (x) sleeps until Christmas"? What’s wrong with "nights" or "days"?

101 replies

Cannotorwillnot · 18/12/2024 15:08

"Sleeps" sounds so deliberately infantile to me. I loathe it. It's completely unnecessary even for young children - if they are so young they can’t understand the concept of days or nights they will almost certainly be having more than one sleep/nap every 24 hours so counting "sleeps" will be meaningless anyway.

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CallItOut · 18/12/2024 15:56

I cannot stand adults saying this. Anything where adults act like little kids makes me squirm.

BogRollBOGOF · 18/12/2024 15:56

It's very easily messed up by having a nap.

MeanderingGently · 18/12/2024 16:00

Yes, yes....I loathe this too! I first heard it when working in a boarding school. It wasn't the children who said it but the adults, the children just looked at the staff as though they were nuts. Who the hell says "sleeps" anyway? I hate it. It's so many DAYS until the end of term/Christmas/New Year or whatever, always has been.

BeachHutsAndDeckchairs · 18/12/2024 16:03

I say it sometimes. Now I know it annoys you, I'll police my language and stop. Maybe. Maybe I'll use it more often?

FaradayCage · 18/12/2024 16:06

I hate it. I had to stop shopping at Asda because they had signs in the entrance announcing the number of them left 😣

nutbrownhare15 · 18/12/2024 16:08

I don't like it either. It feels twee.

FestiveFruitloop · 18/12/2024 16:10

IdgieThreadgoodeIsMyHeroine · 18/12/2024 15:51

It sounds deliberately infantile because it's meant to be said to children, you wombat!

Tough day? 🤔

Tryingtomakeitthroughtheweek · 18/12/2024 16:12

SybilTheSpy · 18/12/2024 15:39

it's on a par with holibobs and hospickle

But I try to live and let live 😂

"Hubby" is another one I hate, and I dont even really understand why?

Iloveyoubut · 18/12/2024 16:13

Oh don’t be a grump! 😂 I get what you mean, I actually hate when I hear adults saying it to other adults etc. however, I do think years ago I remember explaining to my son that he had 3 more bed times or whatever until Santa came because they really don’t grasp the concept of days and nights etc so I’d explain it by ‘sleeps’ I don’t think I used that word exactly, also I’d pick 7 books or stories etc for bedtime that week and say when we got to the bottom of the pile that would be Christmas so I get the concept of sleeps but yes - the terminology and the way it’s used is very irritating.

Iloveyoubut · 18/12/2024 16:14

Tryingtomakeitthroughtheweek · 18/12/2024 16:12

"Hubby" is another one I hate, and I dont even really understand why?

Me too. I have no idea why but I cannot stand it!

ObtuseMoose · 18/12/2024 16:15

How many sleeps is it until people stop being so grinchy about everything?

BallerinaRadio · 18/12/2024 16:16

FaradayCage · 18/12/2024 16:06

I hate it. I had to stop shopping at Asda because they had signs in the entrance announcing the number of them left 😣

People on here are absolutely nuts

Needmorelego · 18/12/2024 16:17

Is it a bit daft because for young children they a : can't count
b : have several sleeps a day
😂😂😂

SybilTheSpy · 18/12/2024 16:17

I'm not sure I could refer to my 'hubby' and keep a straight face.

PTSDBarbiegirl · 18/12/2024 16:17

Sleeps, Holibobs and I was today years old can all feck off, along with tradwives, gingham, facelifts and pumped up speech impediment lips, off they feck, wrapped up in a big bag of E number sugary vomit and propelled through time to Texas in 1957 where they belong.

magicalmrmistoffelees · 18/12/2024 16:18

ChristmasPudd1990 · 18/12/2024 15:47

I've been saying since the early 90s at least,after Muppets Christmas carol movie 🤷‍♀️Worse things to get het up about in the world 🤦‍♀️

🎶 After all there’s only one more sleep til Christmas 🎶

devongirl12 · 18/12/2024 16:19

chattyness · 18/12/2024 15:33

I'm 60 and it's something we always said as children so it's not new or a millennial thing. It doesn't make cringe & I still say it , but just to my dog 😆

Oh really?

I was sure it was new.

I'm in my 40s and only heard it within the last 10 years.

Wasn't sure where it came from. One of those things that just exploded and was suddenly everywhere.

I find it similar to how people recently always say "looks like": "what does your Christmas look like? What would life without your husband look like?" Etc etc. what's wrong with the standard "be like"?

Kentuckycriedfrickin · 18/12/2024 16:21

I'm in my 40s and it was a thing when I was a child so definitely not new. Maybe it's regional?

Shopping centre in town has this. Please avert your eyes if you're easily offended by harmless frivolity.

To cringe every time I see or hear "only (x) sleeps until Christmas"? What’s wrong with "nights" or "days"?
SouthLondonMum22 · 18/12/2024 16:21

My 2 year old doesn’t understand days but he understands sleeps. Especially as he doesn’t nap any more.

Incognitoburrito88 · 18/12/2024 16:26

DappledThings · 18/12/2024 15:42

Days is ambiguous. Today is it 8 days till Christmas, counting today and the 25th? Or 6 or 7 depending on whether you count either today or the 25th or not?

Nights sounds odd because it implies something happening then, like working nights.

Sleeps is twee but covers the issues with both other suggestions.

Thank you this is what I was going to say. I’m 43 with a higher degree and I find days ambiguous for the reasons you state above - measurement of time in sleeps is much clearer terminology which my young children can understand.

TwistedWonder · 18/12/2024 16:28

YANBU it grinds my gears.

I used to work with a bloke who sent a daily email to the whole office counting down the ‘sleeps til Santa’ even when quite a few asked him to stop he carried on.

Incognitoburrito88 · 18/12/2024 16:30

VarneytheVamp · 18/12/2024 15:41

I feel bad for hating it as much as I do because it’s harmless, but it makes me irrationally angry. To make matters worse, I have one friend who uses it constantly along with holibobs, hubcap and a range of other twee phrases.

What on earth is wrong with hubcap? What else are you supposed to call them?

IdgieThreadgoodeIsMyHeroine · 18/12/2024 16:32

FestiveFruitloop · 18/12/2024 16:10

Tough day? 🤔

No, it's just my personality!

DappledThings · 18/12/2024 16:34

Incognitoburrito88 · 18/12/2024 16:30

What on earth is wrong with hubcap? What else are you supposed to call them?

I think that might have been an autocorrect from hubby.

Might start calling mine hubcap now though.

Incognitoburrito88 · 18/12/2024 16:36

DappledThings · 18/12/2024 16:34

I think that might have been an autocorrect from hubby.

Might start calling mine hubcap now though.

😂😂😂

That did not even occur to me for a second - I’m a bit over sensitive - my hubcap fell off the car when I was driving and I’ve been phoning up garages to ask about getting a new one - I was very embarrassed to think I’d been using the wrong terminology!

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