To provide a little back story… I am currently 32 weeks pregnant and have had a very rough pregnancy with HG and being placed on pelvic rest. My MIL just sent me a message stating that she is planning a luncheon with some of her female family members (some I didn’t even know existed until this moment ) the day after Christmas and that she would really love for me to be there to spend time with my new family members. I will be 34 weeks pregnant at this point and I honestly have zero interest in going. I do not have a good relationship with my SIL( she is very rude and judgmental to my DH and I) and my mother in law and her mother are both the type of people who are rude to restaurant staff, so going out to a meal with them is already uncomfortable even when I’m not exhausted and emotional. To make matters worse my husband has been living out of the country for the last two months and I have been staying with my parents. My husband comes home on Christmas Eve, so we were planning on spending time together and working on getting our home set up for the baby in the days following Christmas. AIBU by wanting to nest with my DH instead of spending the afternoon with my MIL and family members I have never met?