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Unnecessary Laundry

141 replies

MyLemonWriter · 11/12/2024 12:53

A few months back I noticed whilst loading the washing machine that most things were actually clean. Has anyone else cut down on the number of times the launder their clothes?

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NewName24 · 11/12/2024 22:31

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 11/12/2024 21:21

It is normal.

Well, if you look through all the posts on this thread alone, you'll see you are in a very, very small minority, which, in general use of language, means it isn't "normal".

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 11/12/2024 22:41

NewName24 · 11/12/2024 22:31

Well, if you look through all the posts on this thread alone, you'll see you are in a very, very small minority, which, in general use of language, means it isn't "normal".

Even with general language use, normal isn’t confined to the majority.
If it did, then all minorities in doing anything would be considered abnormal

  • being self employed instead of being an employee
  • taking the train to work instead of driving
  • doing any postgraduate degree (masters or doctorate)
  • running for public office
  • writing a book
  • seeing a dentist 3x a year

All of the above are done by a minority of people, but none of the above are abnormal.

Edited to add that 21% isn’t a “very, very small minority”

C4tintherug · 11/12/2024 22:48

I teach kids to cook so every day I go home and I smell of onions/garlic/whatever we have been doing that day. Clothes go straight in the wash - they smell very strongly.
I am also training for a marathon so will have 1 very sweaty set of sports kit every day. Clean pyjamas every night because I sweat buckets at night- sometimes it is literally soaking.
My older teenagers both have jobs in fast food places so need uniforms washed after every shift as they smell of deep frying.

I do a load pretty much every day, sometimes 2x day. Drives me mad but I don’t know how I can reduce it.

Am not fanatical about towels or bedding but I cannot bear to smell and after work, I do, so there’s no way I can wear things again.

Sparklyhat · 12/12/2024 09:01

@Poppins21 sorry if someone's already asked this but....what are starched sheets?? How do you achieve that, and what does it do?

QuestionableMouse · 12/12/2024 09:05

Poppins21 · 11/12/2024 13:51

No I love the smell of fresh laundry. Towels washed after ever use, pjs every use. I wash bedding on a Tuesday and a Friday and I starch them. :-) I know life is too short but it’s worth it for that freshly washed bedding feel especially on a Friday evening after a long week.

No wonder the planet is fucked.

RickiRaccoon · 12/12/2024 09:14

Mostly I do 2-3 wears combined with a sniff and visible mark test. If your clothes seem clean to you and those around you, they are clean. I clean socks and undies every day. I just found out DH and mother wear socks for multiple days which surprised me.

soupfiend · 12/12/2024 10:00

Mamma3456 · 11/12/2024 22:24

What about sending millions of microplastics particles into the water supply every time you do a wash? All this crap builds up in water, food chains and ends up in our bodies, in newborn babies. Unless you wear completely natural clothing, no elastics or plastics in anything, then you are contributing to this problem more than you need to.

I answered in respect of water shortages.

What has your reply got to do with that

MyLemonWriter · 12/12/2024 11:57

We are trying to half the amount of washing we do. So each item we are using twice as long. Seems to be working. Clearly if something is dirty it joins the pile.

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whoopsnomore · 12/12/2024 19:00

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 11/12/2024 22:23

They get dirty just by wearing them out and about.
Just going outside you get all the street grunge from vehicle emissions. The Tube literally adds a layer of dust to every bit of exposed anything while being too hot to not undo your coat.

Even if you don’t get very wet with sweat, you are still sweating and excreting oils into everything you wear.

Ah, yes, the "air is dirty" school of thought. Though tbf depends where you live I guess. What about the pollution caused by washing? The micro particles from our (increasingly synthetic) fabrics?

Auburngal · 12/12/2024 20:50

I often drop food or drink down my clothes.

Had to wash my duvet cover after a week this week as had a BCC (basel cell carcinoma) removed 10 days ago and it leaked a bit on my cover - but not that much to go onto the duvet itself.

LoafofSellotape · 12/12/2024 21:02

Auburngal · 12/12/2024 20:50

I often drop food or drink down my clothes.

Had to wash my duvet cover after a week this week as had a BCC (basel cell carcinoma) removed 10 days ago and it leaked a bit on my cover - but not that much to go onto the duvet itself.

Food medals 😉

MyLemonWriter · 13/12/2024 11:06

Catza · 11/12/2024 12:57

Cut down, no. But I never washed anything but socks and pants after one wear.

we have managed to half our laundry by simply wearing everything for twice as long as we would have

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CleftChin · 13/12/2024 11:13

My teenage son's stuff gets washed every wear because he's definitely in a stinky stage - his bedding once a week too, and his bedroom already smells like a rabbit hutch, I want to reduce that, not contribute to it by making him re-wear trousers/jumpers

My and the younger one are more relaxed (apart from underwear) and only wash dirty/smelly things.

KimberleyClark · 13/12/2024 11:40

QuestionableMouse · 12/12/2024 09:05

No wonder the planet is fucked.

Yes, washing towels after every use is insane.

MasterShardlake · 13/12/2024 11:59

I've been buying jumpers made of merino wool and they seem to be self cleaning! I never wear them next to my skin as tend to get itchy.
Anything with synthetic fibres hangs on to smells, BO, cooking smells etc and needs to be washed frequently The pure wool jumpers never smell so I only wash them they get stained or are obviously dirty..

ThisIsAIlNewToMe · 13/12/2024 15:29

@MasterShardlake any recommendations? I need a couple of new jumpers!

MyLemonWriter · 13/12/2024 15:41

RickiRaccoon · 12/12/2024 09:14

Mostly I do 2-3 wears combined with a sniff and visible mark test. If your clothes seem clean to you and those around you, they are clean. I clean socks and undies every day. I just found out DH and mother wear socks for multiple days which surprised me.

That seems like a good approach, socks included.

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Manara · 13/12/2024 16:11

GoofyGoldie · 11/12/2024 13:02

I'm fed up of trying to get the message through to my stepson that he does not need to have a whole new outfit every day! I definitely don't want to do washing for the sake of it. Hubby, DD16 & I will wear clothes more than once. DSS, 18, does not. I've told him he doesn't need to wear the same outfit days in a row, but go back to it, or he could definitely wear the same jeans. The message is not getting through though.

He should be doing his own laundry, then he might be less fastidious about washing everything.

Does he do his own laundry?

Makingchocolatecake · 13/12/2024 18:12

Fireworknight · 11/12/2024 15:09

They’re already been put in laundery with the smelly washy, so I feel duty bound to wash them. Grrr.

Get the febreeze out :D

Extraticket · 13/12/2024 19:25

A friend of mine is adamant that her woolly jumpers should never ever need washing because wool is self-cleaning. So just a bit of airing is enough to refresh it. Living in London, I find that quite grubby.

MasterShardlake · 13/12/2024 19:43

ThisIsAIlNewToMe · 13/12/2024 15:29

@MasterShardlake any recommendations? I need a couple of new jumpers!

These wash well and lots of colours to choose from. I'm usually a size 10 but prefer jumpers to be looser so the Medium is just right for me.
https://www.woolovers.com/womens/jumpers/ladies-cashmere-and-merino-crew-neck-knitted-sweater-cream-9353

SoManyTshirts · 13/12/2024 19:45

garlictwist · 11/12/2024 21:12

I've been wearing the same top for three days. Just took it off and it still smells totally fresh so I'll wear it tomorrow too.

I agree with the sniff test, but this isn’t how to do it. If you just took your top off, you’ll be nose blind to your own scent.

I leave my clothes on the floor overnight (ok, hung up to air on a good day) then sniff them after I’ve showered and been outside for 10 minutes or so exercise. Can be quite revealing and often results in the bedroom getting an extra airing.

Mymanyellow · 13/12/2024 19:50

Your top isn’t ’totally fresh’ after three days. Can’t be.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 13/12/2024 20:16

This is something I've been working towards, to cut my workload (I'm the laundry person) to cut our power costs and more importantly for environmental reasons. I go through kids uniforms and wipe down little stains on the front or cuff and put back as clean. My own work clothes get dirty but usually clean dirt ie not germy so I wash my T shirt after every wear and wipe the outer layer and try to wash after 2 or 3 days. I feel like I'm fighting a losing battle though as I'm trying to get kids more responsible to manage their own stuff but then they fill the laundry baskets, so it's either do all the laundry or go through their clothes and hang them up.

Catza · 13/12/2024 20:33

Extraticket · 13/12/2024 19:25

A friend of mine is adamant that her woolly jumpers should never ever need washing because wool is self-cleaning. So just a bit of airing is enough to refresh it. Living in London, I find that quite grubby.

It's true thought. I have several knits that have never been washed. I am currently wearing a cashmere jumper which has been out of cupboard at least a dozen times in the last two months. There is no smell and no, I wouldn't typically wear any top for this many times before I wash it.
My mum is an avid knitter so we always had wooly jumpers and washing them was an annual job at best.

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