Opinions please

[Sofedup15]

Long rant ahead lol
Been with my partner a year and a half.
During this time he has left me numerous times. He always comes back within less than 24hrs. Apologies for being an idiot etc etc etc
This morning we were talking about Christmas I said r u looking forward to Christmas. He said no not really. OK kinda understandable, he has no family he sees regularly he does have a daughter who is 21 but she can be a bit selfish. Age maybe? Eg. Last year she came in his house while he was out lifted all her Christmas presents from the under the tree, didnt even bother to say she'd been never mind thanks for the gifts! She said she was busy Christmas day and boxing day so they didn't see each other.
Also he works as a courier so very busy and stressful this time of year.
BUT then he said I'd be happy enough if I'd to spend Christmas here on my own! This really upset me.
I have 2 kids a 6year old and 19uear old. Last year we all spent Christmas together in my house. Had a great time. I was aware he would miss his daughter and encouraged him to call her etc but we genuinely had a great time all got stuck in.
I've been looking forward to this year.
Because I got upset a whole row started saying I blow everything out of proportion etc etc etc
And now surprise surprise he fini9with me, said he's blocking my number and asked me to leave his house.
On my way down road home hes ringing me saying I've made my choice because I left! He's txt saying he lives me etc etc
Im so fed up with it, with the whole were done. Not knowing if we're together or not, the drama, not being able to make plans
Its unfair

I guess my aibu is was I unreasonable to be hurt by his talk this morning

Honestly, you need to end it properly. He’s an arse.

End it and welcome to your new single life OP! You would be well rid of the pair of them by the sound of it.

I don’t think I could be bothered with someone who broke up with me for 24 hours, several times.
Not always easy I know, but I’d leave him to it .

Get rid of him OP. Someone who dumps you every time you have a minor argument isn't a keeper.

Please stay out of this relationship and block him. He and his daughter are both drama seekers and that will never end happily for anyone. The minute he asked me to leave I would have said “be sure you want me gone, because I’m not coming back” and then once you leave that is it. Stop playing this game and end it for good.

What has happened to give you such low self esteem that you would give this dickhead the time of day?

He is a shit boyfriend, and you deserve much better. Being single would be a dream compared to this shite.

Block him, never contact him again and put an end to this ridiculous situation for once an for all.

Why would you ever allow someone to fuck you about more than once?

Why do you keep accepting this shit? He has left you multiple times in 18 months, what you think will happen for the next 18 if you don't put a stop to this?

Thanks everyone for ur replies.
I can see a common thread here lol and I know u are all right. I know u are.
I am an idiot. I do have extremely low self esteem. But I know you are all right and I'm going to keep reading this tonight to remind myself.
I do deserve much better I really do but how do I keep getting it so wring

If you can't put yourself first then at least think of the damage this relationship is doing to your 6 year old. Your child comes before any feckless bloody bloke.