Let me preface this by saying I think Royal Mail do an amazing job, especially at such a busy time of year. My regular postman is nothing short of incredible.
However...
Last night I had a parcel delivered quite late by a postman I had not met before. Not a problem. He takes a photo of the parcel and we wish each other a good evening. Fine.
Not even two minutes later, he comes back and says that he took a photo of the wrong part of the label and can he take another one. Seems like a genuine mistake, so he takes the pic and is on his way again.
Ten minutes later he's back. This time saying I need to write my name on an app to confirm I've received it. He's super apologetic and I give him the benefit of the doubt, assuming he's temp staff over the Christmas period. I put my name in the app, thinking that's the end of it.
He then tries to start a conversation, asking about my personal life. When I realise he's trying to find out if I live alone, I change the conversation and ask if he has many more parcels to deliver and then say I won't keep him any longer, so he can get back to work.
By this point it's really quite late, I'm in my pajamas alone and feeling uneasy about the whole interaction, so make sure I've double locked the door. Watch I'm a Celeb on catch up and then go to bed.
This morning I've woken up to a "Sorry we missed you" card with just a mobile number scribbled over it in sharpie, which means he must have returned a fourth time after 10pm.
Would I be unreasonable to make a complaint to Royal Mail about this? I feel like it's unprofessional at best and predatory at worst.
I'm autistic, so not sure if I've done something wrong in these interactions to cause this, but in any event feel completely uncomfortable with the situation.
Any advice would be very welcome!