Aibu to end a relationship if my boyfriend hasn't said he loves me? And if I ever bring up feelings etc he just doesn't like it, almost like he's quite avoidant.
Back story: dated for a year, said he loved me within a few months, his actions matched so didn't doubt it. Looking back was probably very quick him saying it. He ended it out of nowhere, didn't know what he wanted etc.
a few months later came back said it was a massive mistake blah blah blah, did make a massive effort and gave it another go.
His effort defo dipped when I called him out on stuff or wanted to talk about previous issues to put them to bed, a few big arguments which we got through but his said he hopes one day he'll fall in love with me but isn't there now. Have been dating again 8 months.