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to think it's a bit weird that Bryan McFadden is fighting so that his MOTHER can have custody of this own children?

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FreddysTeddy · 29/04/2008 21:40

Not a Kerry Katona rant, this one, but I read something today about how Bryan McFadden is fighting her for custody. Apparently he wants his mother to have custody of his girls, and not KK.

I know this could well be made-up tabloidy bollocks, but if it's true, am I the only one who thinks it's weird? I mean, fight for custody by all means but doesn't he want to live with them himself?

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Earlybird · 29/04/2008 21:54

You're right. He could choose to be in the UK, and I have no idea if his romance was the only reason he moved.

FreddysTeddy · 29/04/2008 21:55

It wasn't the removing him from KK's care bit that I though was weird - it was the not going for custody of them himself part.

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LittleBella · 29/04/2008 21:56

Ah I've heard of atomic kitten [doddery icon]

Earlybird · 29/04/2008 21:57

You're assuming he doesn't want to care for his children full time (which may be true). I'm assuming his professional life would make it impossible for him to be around enough to care for them full time (which may not be true).

Either way - and for whatever reason - he certainly moved a long way away from them.

FreddysTeddy · 29/04/2008 21:59

If my professional life made it impossible to provide a stable parenting influence to my children then I'd consider a career change, but I guess that's just me.

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beaniesteve · 29/04/2008 22:00

Surely if his mum wants them or thinks their environment is unsuitable, she should be trying to get custody?

beaniesteve · 29/04/2008 22:01

Oh - and. Is there really any evidence that she is still taking illegal drugs?

FreddysTeddy · 29/04/2008 22:01

Agree Beaniesteve, just don't understand why it's his Mum going for custody and not him. However, as nametaken says, he could already have gone for custody and lost.

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posieflump · 29/04/2008 22:02

I agree with freddysteddy
so you live in Oz, think your kids are being brought up by a mum with issues and an allegedly drug dealing husband, you move back over and fight for custody

well I would at any rate

or even shared custody with his mum

but maybe none of it is true anyway!

FreddysTeddy · 29/04/2008 22:02

Dunno, who mentioned drugs?

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FreddysTeddy · 29/04/2008 22:03

Let's hope it's all tabloid made-up bollocks.

Poor kids if not.

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posieflump · 29/04/2008 22:03

the tabloids, every day!

mshadowsisfab · 29/04/2008 22:06

i read about this in a crappy mag. if he wants his kids so bad why doesn't he move to ireland. he is as bad as her. poor kids.

FreddysTeddy · 29/04/2008 22:06

Ah, I see Posie.

Well, I'm off now. Apologies if anyone was offended by this thread, am having a judgy moment this evening, and was trying to work out if there was more to it than meets the eye.

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madamez · 29/04/2008 22:09

It is of course possible that his new partner doesn't want him to get custody of the DC because she either thinks or knows that he would expect her to give up work and look after them. It is possible that he is one of these men who expects the women around him to do all the caretaking work while he's off doing his important Man stuff. (Again, lawyers, I don't know, just idle speculation not accusations).

beaniesteve · 29/04/2008 22:11

Madamez mentioned drugs, bur generally this is the crux of the matter isn't it?

mehdismummy · 29/04/2008 22:12

what tele apperances brian mcfatten is shit ansd so is kk, those poor kids better off with his mim

nametaken · 29/04/2008 22:13

Well I think the crux of the matter is that apart from McFaddens mother, there isn't anyone else those children could go to is there?

dittany · 29/04/2008 22:18

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mehdismummy · 29/04/2008 22:30

i just feel so sorry for those poor girls

beaniesteve · 29/04/2008 22:36

OK - why do you feel sorry for 'those poor girls'? because they are basically hounded by the press? because their mum is bi-polar? Because they are in a step family?

mshadowsisfab · 29/04/2008 22:37

because they are caught up in all this stuff. they are most likely happy, loved and looked after though.

beaniesteve · 29/04/2008 22:37

Because everything printed in Heat and the News of the World is true?

mshadowsisfab · 29/04/2008 22:37

(oh dear I misread a name and thought I had writen that post duh)

scottishmummy · 29/04/2008 22:41

this is public melt down acrimonious custody battle.KK has BPAD and is clearly troubled.i do worry about the girls and the impact of such acrimonious divisive squabbling splitting them. maybe more conducive and amicable to the children to try amicably settle and arrange visitation