I am applying for a job with a charity. The application form asks about caring responsibilities, specifically asking who you're responsible for - children, elderly people, disabled children etc. There is an option 'prefer not to say.' Is this OK for them to ask? The same form also asks questions about class and socio-economic factors - parents' jobs, whether you were eligible for free school meals, whether you went to state school etc. This seems really off to me. I feel like I might be penalised for not being working class enough (mum was a teacher), where in fact we were very, very skint at all times because she was single and she had a shocking endowment mortgage. Anyway, I am just wondering, given they're definitely not allowed to ask these questions at interview, why is it OK to ask them in the application?
I am used to NHS application forms, which ask about sexual orientation and race, but not class or caring duties. What do you think Mumsnet mind? Should I select 'prefer not to say' and be done with it, or does that seem cagey?
I am an overthinker at times. So there's that too!