DD is 22, she's graduated, lives in a flat share works etc.
We also have a 15 year old and 11 year old.
For oldest DD was asked what she wanted as her big ticket item, she asked for a new Apple Watch, just the SE one so we spent £219 on this. We also got her AirPods as the others want them and she mentioned that hers don't hold a charge much now.
Other things we've picked up
- New bedding
- Slippers (uggs so £90)
- Ferrari Hat
- Perfume
- Hot water bottle
- Blanket
- Candle x2
DS has asked for AirPods and a new phone (he's had his about 3.5 years). The phone is on contract so not too bad. We are also going to get him new trainers and a new coat, I imagine about £300 on those and some "bits" like aftershave, phone case etc.
Youngest DD will get her first phone on contract, AirPods, a Stanley cup, some skincare (age appropriate) and some clothes. I also plan to get her a tennis racket as part of her Christmas as she's showing she wants to play.
Now if you include the cash price of the phones we are spending more on the younger 2 quite significantly.
I think this is fine as DD isn't a student anymore she's an adult with a wage and can look after herself. We are also still spending a lot on her.
AIBU to think this is fine?