How to ask whether DD has been invites to the party?

[VhhiIg]

A school mum's just sent a message inviting DD to her DDs party. The only thing is I wonder whether she meant to send it to me. Her DD is in the other class, coincidentally DD's name was on the other class list at the start of the year though they aren't actually in the same class. We've never had a playdate in the past. Her child is really lovely and our kids occasionally play together at school but it's not like they are best mates. Any advice on how best to phrase it to check whether she actually meant to send the message to me or not? Please help...

You're overthinking it now, OP. You've been given lots of good advice here. Time to act on it and just ask!

I don't understand the replies on here.

The party host would have been sure who she was sending the invitations too. Why the angst? The last thing the host wants to do is send a message to the wrong person and thus making it really awkward for her.

The child would have said who her friends were and her mum acted on that.

To then receive a message saying are you sure its my kid is rude and annoying.

Either accept or decline gracefully.

did you post this same qu a while back @VhhiIg ? I know that’s an odd qu but I remember reading such a similar post a while back!! Not sure if I’m losing it or what.

Can’t you just say she can’t make it that day? If they ain’t great friends will it matter?