My partner thinks he can have sex with me when he wants it. I can clearly say we are not having sex tonight and he says oh yes we are. He then starts to touch me and although I say no he says shut up! You know you will end up enjoying it anyway. So I end up getting enticed and we have sex. Half way through he does pause and ask if I want to keep going (is this to make himself feel better about ignoring my 'no') but people pleasing me goes along with it and by this point I guess I am enjoying it, I always say no it okay just keep going. He also grabs my boobs when he wants, if we are doing foreplay he is very rough with his fingers, I push his hands away and say no I can't do it that hard and he just flicks my hands off him or pins my arms down and continues. Is this so terribly wrong. Is it my fault for not setting boundaries and maybe he does genuinely think I enjoy it. I also have to sleep naked even though I hate it which he knows I hate. One time after a hard Nightshift he jumped into bed next to me and I turned away and said no please I need sleep. Next minute he has me on my front, bottoms off and does his thing. I froze couldn't say a word. He asked if I wanted him to stop and yet again a shook my head I just wanted it over with. Days later I told him how it made me feel and that it was wrong. He laughed it off at first then said it wouldn't happen again. It's so strange because I think I end up giving in now that it hasn't got to the point where he just flips me over but I think it's heading that way. I just think I'm numb and confused to it all now.