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Neighbour stealing my garden!

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fencedispute2024 · 01/12/2024 21:31

See obligatory diagram.

i can home today to find that my neighbour has put a new fence up and taken part of my garden. The blue area is my garden, grey is neighbours and the red part has now been fenced off.

the area is definitely mine. I’ve even shown a copy of the plans from when the house was built to the neighbour and his response was “anyone could have drawn that”. It’s a document that is signed and stamped FGS.

neighbour moved in 8 years ago so doesn’t have an adverse possession claim. There was previously a hedge there which was removed before neighbour moved in. 2/3 of the garden is a fence. Neighbour has extended that fence in a straight line rather than the boundary. We both own in case relevant.

where do I go from here?

Neighbour stealing my garden!
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Myneeboots · 05/12/2024 10:36

Just go and remove the fence. Stop being a push over.

johnd2 · 05/12/2024 11:01

fencedispute2024 · 04/12/2024 23:03

With diagram

Excellent diagram, your house looks really happy on that rendition 😆
But to be more serious, you are allowed to remove the fence on your property and return it to the owner without damaging it. If you damage it you could be liable for that damage, and if you smashed it up with a sledgehammer that would be criminal damage.
Think of it like if you accidentally parked on someone's property, thinking you had permission, you wouldn't expect it to be damaged when you returned.

Also regarding adverse possession, that would only start from when they fence it off, not simply by leaving their bins on it. But assuming your title is registered with the land registry then any claim would fail regardless. But still, get their fence off your land asap.

AngelontopoftheTree · 05/12/2024 11:51

fencedispute2024 · 02/12/2024 00:04

That’s very tempting but I’d like to try and maintain some kind of relationship!

Why are trying to appease someone who has been trying to "steal" your land for 8 years?
They are the ones causing the problem, not you.

Arlanymor · 05/12/2024 13:27

Potentiallyplausible · 05/12/2024 09:35

But the red bit is right in front of her house. Of course it’s hers.

Oh apologies, I was looking at it as if it was at the bottom of the garden. That makes more sense then.

BurntBroccoli · 05/12/2024 13:45

BruhWhy · 05/12/2024 10:31

Oh wow the newer diagram makes a lot more sense, the garden has clearly been divided that way so you have garden that extends all the way across the front of your house.

He's being a greedy fucker.

Take the fence out, pop it back onto his garden, put your own boundary fence up.

He's not your friend, he clearly has no regard for your neighbourly relationship. Show him the deeds again, both his and yours, and tell him you've spoken to your solicitor and if he does it again you will be taking him to court.

I would go with this. Move his fence and put your own in. Plus order Official Copies of your register and plan. Send this to neighbour via Recorded signed for as evidence.

CarrotPencil · 05/12/2024 13:50

He is a cheeky fucker the way he went about it.

So is the red bit right outside your window? Maybe that’s why it’s an odd random bit added on to your garden, so that someone else generally won’t stand/garden there right outside your window?

If that’s not the case, then why is your official garden such a random shape? Do you really want that little patch? I CBA to fight about a tiny bit like that, probably would be if it was right outside my window.

Notonthestairs · 05/12/2024 13:57

It looks to me as if the Ops house was built first and the neighbours was a later addition - hence the awkward driveway.

In this sort of situation I don't think holding out for a friendly relationship helps. He clearly doesn't feel the same way or he would have tried to reach an agreement with you before putting the fence up.

Arlanymor · 05/12/2024 13:59

Arlanymor · 05/12/2024 13:27

Oh apologies, I was looking at it as if it was at the bottom of the garden. That makes more sense then.

@Potentiallyplausible actually, I'm not dumb after all, there was a second diagram that came way after my comment that showed the houses. My comment was after the first diagram that just looked like it was at the bottom of the garden, so I think my observation at the time was fair enough really!!

Sleepysleepycoffeecoffee · 05/12/2024 14:25

fencedispute2024 · 01/12/2024 22:53

It’s at the front of the house, so the bottom part of the diagram is the driveway and the part where the red area is is a garden area. The driveway doesn’t line up with the house so that 2 cars can fit on his driveway. The driveway part is separated by a fence.

the red area is directly in front of my house and previously had a small hedge.

(I was trying not to over complicate it by giving too much detail)

I must admit, I’m lost 🤣

50shadesofnay · 05/12/2024 14:32

If he has put things on your property tell him if he doesn't remove it, you will. Then remove it, pile it on his property with a copy of the deeds to his house showing his boundary taped to it and erect your own fence.

Pompeyssy · 05/12/2024 14:40

AConstipatedAccountantJustCantBudget · 05/12/2024 10:33

It's just occurred to me - he's highly unlikely to succeed, but I wonder if he might be intending to put his house on the market and is hoping to mislead potential buyers into believing that the piece of land is part of his house, to increase its value and/or desirability, long enough until he manages to exchange.

This is also reminding me of the old saga of Twittlebee Woods - some people really are just that nasty and shameless.

Whatever happened at the end of that?
Was that thd thread where a woman went back to a family house/plot/wooded area and found that it was being used?
I wondered what ended up happening in the end? Thanks

LookItsMeAgain · 05/12/2024 15:25

FoxtonFoxton · 01/12/2024 22:45

He's obviously going to completely ignore any paperwork you present to him, so I'd go directly to a solicitor with your deeds etc and go from there. Don't bother getting into lengthy arguments on the doorstep.

This.

Clauz · 05/12/2024 15:51

He's not your friend! Seriously remove the fence and put something he won't be able to move there whilst you get your own up. A car, a skip... I don't know! Anyway, fence needs to go and get a solicitor.

Notdrowningbutmightbe · 05/12/2024 15:55

let it go, life is too short

AConstipatedAccountantJustCantBudget · 05/12/2024 16:07

Pompeyssy · 05/12/2024 14:40

Whatever happened at the end of that?
Was that thd thread where a woman went back to a family house/plot/wooded area and found that it was being used?
I wondered what ended up happening in the end? Thanks

Edited

I think she may well still be on here, but most probably with a different username.

As I recall, whilst in the middle of the foul bullying neighbours seeking to grab her land, she underwent some tragic personal circumstances that naturally pushed the land-theft from being uppermost in her mind.

I don't know if it was ever resolved; but I really hope that she's OK and in a much better place mentally now.

SoupDragon · 05/12/2024 16:07

Notdrowningbutmightbe · 05/12/2024 15:55

let it go, life is too short

Do you regularly just give away valuable things you own?

AConstipatedAccountantJustCantBudget · 05/12/2024 16:08

Notdrowningbutmightbe · 05/12/2024 15:55

let it go, life is too short

Yes, I agree: that's exactly what he's counting on OP thinking, to enable him to get away with and benefit from his outrageous behaviour.

hydriotaphia · 05/12/2024 16:08

Go straight to a solicitor as others have said.

Whoarethoseguys · 05/12/2024 16:27

Notdrowningbutmightbe · 05/12/2024 15:55

let it go, life is too short

But would you want someone else's bins outside your front window?

YouveGotAFastCar · 05/12/2024 16:30

OP can legally remove fence (and anything else) from her land, but it'd be unwise to do it with a sledgehammer - you'd be much better to remove it or have it removed gently and put the fence back on his land, so you've not damaged his belongings, but you've protected your land.

The alternative is to send a letter before action, as someone else has said, and make it clear that the land is yours and he needs to have removed his belongings from it by XX date. I'd give him 14 days.

The courts will look favourably on you for attempting to resolve it before it gets to them, but that's exactly what the LBA is for, it's the pre-court process. Google for a template, so you get the correct verbiage and warning to put at the bottom.

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 05/12/2024 16:34

Solicitor ASAP.

notatinydancer · 05/12/2024 16:37

Notdrowningbutmightbe · 05/12/2024 15:55

let it go, life is too short

Would you give away part of your garden ?

SeatonCarew · 05/12/2024 16:51

It's clear the boundary is as it is so that the smaller house (neighbour) can have two parking spaces but not have their boundary extending out in front of the OP's property/ sightline.

From your posts OP, can we take it that has always been the case since the properties were built forty years ago? If so there should be a clear trail. If not, it must have been transferred to the neighbour at some point, and that should also be clearly demonstrable.

You unfortunately have landed a CF neighbour here, OP. Don't get mad, get even straight. Good luck.

fencedispute2024 · 05/12/2024 17:04

Both properties were built at the same time. And the boundary has been in the same place since the properties were built.

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LetThereBeLove · 05/12/2024 17:17

Remove the fence as pp have suggested. You still may have to go down the legal route 😬

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