Background; I'm 2 years free of my abusive exH. I have an order against him so that he can't come near me. He hasn't seen our 2 DC since April and I've had to field questions from our eldest about why she's not seeing him as well as dealing with all her conflicted emotions. Thankfully youngest DC is oblivious and has probably forgotten him as he was 2 when we left and contact has been very sporadic before it stopped altogether months ago. I am not blocking contact, he just needs to sort it and he'd rather do drugs etc.
He was paying an amount he suggested and had been paying on time until July when I recieved it late (beginning of Aug) and since then not a penny or word (via solicitors) from him. To put it bluntly I'm now struggling financially but of course as us mams do I'm making it work and going without food etc to make sure our DC have all they need.
In general I have lost all but a couple of friends as they all believe his shite that he's a victim and has done no wrong.
The issue; I have found out that in the past 24hrs he's been posting all over Facebook to warn women of a violent man who has beaten up a woman. He's also made comments about how vile this man is not just because of the violence but that he has left the mother(s) of his children with no money.
I really really want to post a comment pointing out he has also left the mother of his children without money and that does he think because he didn't break my bones and leave bruises where others can see them does this mean he's not as bad?
I'm ok with him posting warning women about this other man as he truly is a vile piece of shit and women should be warned but him making comments as if he's the greatest man/husband/father to have ever lived is really boiling my piss!!!!!!!!
AIBU don't do it it's not worth it and you don't want him to know you can see his posts
YANBU do it, the world should know he's scum and you have kept quiet for too many years as it is!!