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To spend £30 a month on ALL food and drink?

409 replies

Jumell · 01/12/2024 12:38

I’m single and live alone. I want to set myself a good budget and admit I’ve overspent /been wasteful in the past.

As a single adult female living alone - is £30 per month on food doable do you think ? Includes eating out etc

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Jumell · 01/12/2024 14:48

BMW6 · 01/12/2024 14:25

Oh and you haven't bought any loo roll, toiletries or household cleaning products.

So you'll be filthy, stinky, rotting teeth, greasy hair, shitty arse and zero clean clothes.......

JUST good and drink

eVery thing else COMPLETELY separate

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Jumell · 01/12/2024 14:48

food not good

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MereDintofPandiculation · 01/12/2024 14:50

My father, whose portions were miniscule, spent £25 a week, not including his milk delivery.

Doitrightnow · 01/12/2024 14:50

Is it possible to eat on £30/month? No.
I would spend a min of £25/week to feel healthy. At the moment I spend about £90/week for two people and we eat well.

Your food purchases are terrible whatever your budget. If I had such a tight budget I'd be eating a lot of jacket potatoes, beans, carrots and apples.

WoolySnail · 01/12/2024 14:52

Credit where credit is due at least you have recognised you have wasted money etc in the past and are tackling it. Your budget is unrealistic but if you look at someone the links people have kindly posted you'll find lots of meal ideas. Cooking from scratch is your biggest saver. Things like pre sliced cheese etc ( instead of a block, but this is only an example, as you said you only got the cheese for the nectar points- also a bad idea, making purchases you wouldn’t normally just for points) will decimate your budget in no time!

SapphireOpal · 01/12/2024 14:53

Jumell · 01/12/2024 13:50

Didn’t write a running daily total from Tuesday 12th Nov but from memory here goes best I can

slice Pizza Greggs - 2.30
tube Pringles 1.50
2 packet digestives - 55p x 2
custard cream packet - 32p
Around 5 /6 pints of milk at 85 p each or 69p if discount
Sainsbury’s x 6 packet sultana scones
Sainsbury’s mince pies packet (6?) - 1.95

sainsbury’s cheese slices 2 packets - 3,25 includes 4 slices - inc cheddar/wensleydale etc

with my nectar bonus points I’ve bought 2 x packets of the ready made pasta with tuna /sweetcorn Sainsbury’s -around 2.95 /packet

1 large jar own brand instant coffee - around £3?

had hand a jar of coffee and few tea bags already in BUT NOTHING ELSE!

free Greggs donut

small box chocs as gift

packet of 2 shelled, cooked boiled eggs

Some of my purchases gave me massive Nectar bonus points which would explain the mince pies and scones etc

so roughly this !!

So what have you actually eaten for meals?

This is basically snacks.

Jumell · 01/12/2024 14:54

WoolySnail · 01/12/2024 14:52

Credit where credit is due at least you have recognised you have wasted money etc in the past and are tackling it. Your budget is unrealistic but if you look at someone the links people have kindly posted you'll find lots of meal ideas. Cooking from scratch is your biggest saver. Things like pre sliced cheese etc ( instead of a block, but this is only an example, as you said you only got the cheese for the nectar points- also a bad idea, making purchases you wouldn’t normally just for points) will decimate your budget in no time!

Thank you - some of the ideas on here have been really helpful

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Jumell · 01/12/2024 14:55

SapphireOpal · 01/12/2024 14:53

So what have you actually eaten for meals?

This is basically snacks.

Nothing apart from this, I’m afraid

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crumblingschools · 01/12/2024 14:58

How come you had nothing else in your cupboards or fridge before you started this? No herbs or spices? Tinned food?

Before this did you eat fruit and veg? Cook meals from scratch?

Allthehorsesintheworld · 01/12/2024 14:58

I don’t think so. £30 a week is doable I live alone, vegetarian, don’t drink and I can probably get away with £100 a month if I put my mind to it.

SapphireOpal · 01/12/2024 14:59

Jumell · 01/12/2024 14:55

Nothing apart from this, I’m afraid

Then yes, you are being really bloody unreasonable and clearly have some kind of disordered eating.

It is possible to live off a low food budget - probably not £30 for a month, but maybe £60 (which is basically what you will have spent by the time you've actually done a month.

But buying ready prepared hard boiled eggs, scones, ready to eat tuna pasta etc is obviously not the way to go about it and you know it.

Just buy some proper food, including vegetables, and cook proper meals.

Jumell · 01/12/2024 15:00

SapphireOpal · 01/12/2024 14:59

Then yes, you are being really bloody unreasonable and clearly have some kind of disordered eating.

It is possible to live off a low food budget - probably not £30 for a month, but maybe £60 (which is basically what you will have spent by the time you've actually done a month.

But buying ready prepared hard boiled eggs, scones, ready to eat tuna pasta etc is obviously not the way to go about it and you know it.

Just buy some proper food, including vegetables, and cook proper meals.

I admit I’m very lazy re cooking from scratch and I need to organise myself and address this

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Fizbosshoes · 01/12/2024 15:00

When you say you've wasted money in the past, there is a huge difference between wasting money (and potentially food, if you bought stuff you weren't going to eat) and coming up with an arbitrary budget which will be hard to stick to.

Even if you do need to stick to a strict budget the types of food listed are much more expensive than making things yourself. What is your normal eating (if not on a budget) like, and do you generally cook your own meals?
That's generally (not always) cheaper than buying processed foods.

NerdWhoEatsMedlar · 01/12/2024 15:01

Money spent per day £1.57
Calories eaten per day 650
Entirely in snacks

Have you been going home for dinner?

CrunchyChocolate · 01/12/2024 15:01

I honestly wouldn't expect anyone over the age of about 10 to make those choices with your budget. You're either trolling or have a serious eating disorder.

Jumell · 01/12/2024 15:02

crumblingschools · 01/12/2024 14:58

How come you had nothing else in your cupboards or fridge before you started this? No herbs or spices? Tinned food?

Before this did you eat fruit and veg? Cook meals from scratch?

Ok totally admit I haven’t got into the good habits of cooking meals from scratch

too lazy - and j TOTALLY need to address this, admittedly

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Mylifeisamesssuchamess · 01/12/2024 15:02

Jumell · 01/12/2024 15:00

I admit I’m very lazy re cooking from scratch and I need to organise myself and address this

Start small but reasonably healthy e.g. beans on toast, eggs on toast, jacket potato and tuna, chicken breast and veg, pasta, tuna and veg, some of the nicer supermarket soups etc. cooking doesn't have to be fancy when you live alone but it should still be reasonably healthy. Even starting small like the above will get you in better habits of eating 3 meals a day.

Allthehorsesintheworld · 01/12/2024 15:02

And you’re not eating meals, your list is just carbs with a lot of sugar.
On about £120 a month I have home made soup, lots of fresh and frozen veg, fruit daily, yoghurt either shop bought or home made. At the moment I have lentils, chick peas and I’ve bought protein powder as I’m not eating eggs or cheese bc of a health problem.
You need to look at some sites like Thrifty Lesley to get meal ideas.

Jumell · 01/12/2024 15:03

CrunchyChocolate · 01/12/2024 15:01

I honestly wouldn't expect anyone over the age of about 10 to make those choices with your budget. You're either trolling or have a serious eating disorder.

Not trolling nor ED just 1st month of serious budgeting and it’s been a serious case of trial and error - admittedly with the error element prominent.

no WAY will I be making these choices next month. Just NO

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blackbird77 · 01/12/2024 15:04

@Jumell What was your diet like before 12th November? Can you give us an example of what you’d eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner each day? What was your normal average monthly spend on food like and what would you spend it on?

Jumell · 01/12/2024 15:04

Mylifeisamesssuchamess · 01/12/2024 15:02

Start small but reasonably healthy e.g. beans on toast, eggs on toast, jacket potato and tuna, chicken breast and veg, pasta, tuna and veg, some of the nicer supermarket soups etc. cooking doesn't have to be fancy when you live alone but it should still be reasonably healthy. Even starting small like the above will get you in better habits of eating 3 meals a day.

Thanks this is good advice

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Jumell · 01/12/2024 15:05

blackbird77 · 01/12/2024 15:04

@Jumell What was your diet like before 12th November? Can you give us an example of what you’d eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner each day? What was your normal average monthly spend on food like and what would you spend it on?

Ok I was overeating and vowing to start diets tomorrow all the time - VERY bad

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Jumell · 01/12/2024 15:06

NerdWhoEatsMedlar · 01/12/2024 15:01

Money spent per day £1.57
Calories eaten per day 650
Entirely in snacks

Have you been going home for dinner?

NO!! I’ve been literally AT home !

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Scirocco · 01/12/2024 15:08

@Jumell you need to learn the basics first. Learn healthy cheap recipes, then try the budgeting.

WhySoManySocks · 01/12/2024 15:08

Jumell · 01/12/2024 13:50

Didn’t write a running daily total from Tuesday 12th Nov but from memory here goes best I can

slice Pizza Greggs - 2.30
tube Pringles 1.50
2 packet digestives - 55p x 2
custard cream packet - 32p
Around 5 /6 pints of milk at 85 p each or 69p if discount
Sainsbury’s x 6 packet sultana scones
Sainsbury’s mince pies packet (6?) - 1.95

sainsbury’s cheese slices 2 packets - 3,25 includes 4 slices - inc cheddar/wensleydale etc

with my nectar bonus points I’ve bought 2 x packets of the ready made pasta with tuna /sweetcorn Sainsbury’s -around 2.95 /packet

1 large jar own brand instant coffee - around £3?

had hand a jar of coffee and few tea bags already in BUT NOTHING ELSE!

free Greggs donut

small box chocs as gift

packet of 2 shelled, cooked boiled eggs

Some of my purchases gave me massive Nectar bonus points which would explain the mince pies and scones etc

so roughly this !!

That’s a horrible list and contains so little real food - protein, healthy fats, ingredients for hone cooked meals. If you really have little money pr are trying to be frugal and lose weight, buying Pringles and biscuits is ridiculous.