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Ex BF sleeping with his brother’s wife

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LalaPaloosa2024 · 30/11/2024 19:37

What would you do? An ex boyfriend revealed triumphantly that he had slept with his eldest brother’s girlfriend and then told this brother what a great girl he had, prompting the brother to propose. They are now married. This ex boasted about this to me and my best friend. He went into detail about the two of them being the last people awake at his brother’s villa, and how they played pool for kisses, which ended up being sex on the pool table. The next morning his brother insisted his girlfriend take my ex to Singapore and make sure he has a good time. Apparently they were kicking each other under the table as he said this. They flew to Singapore with the eldest brother’s credit card and apparently “D*cked like rabbits”. My ex then boasted that the eldest brother was their mother’s favourite and he had taken what the eldest brother had. He was extremely pleased with himself and had always been jealous of this brother’s financial success, while he had not been successful himself and had a lot of debt. My best friend immediately condemned this, likening my ex to Hitler. Neither of us has spoken to him since. Does the brother deserve to know? Is it unreasonable to keep it to myself?

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HelpMeGetThrough · 01/12/2024 06:50

Yes, I agree. I have done. But how do people live with themselves behaving this way?

Quite easily. It never happened.

ThinWomansBrain · 01/12/2024 07:33

@LalaPaloosa2024
I can't see there's anything to be gained by saying anything - for anyone
Just forget it & be grateful you're not involved with any of them.

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 01/12/2024 07:47

LalaPaloosa2024 · 01/12/2024 04:08

Obviously.

he explained on the scale of morality, where Hitler is at one end and normal people are at the other, my ex is closer to Hitler. The ex then tried to resile from the whole sorry tale. Neither of us were amused or laughing. I don’t think horrified was the reaction he hoped for.

Your friend is an idiot.

It's deeply offensive and ignorant to start throwing accusations of "Hitler" or "Nazis" around for well, situations which don't involve Hitler and actual Nazis or neo Nazis.

Needanadultgapyear · 01/12/2024 08:00

If you tell the brother you instantly become the crazy ex. Don't engage with this, walk away he is an Ex for a reason.

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