I'm 54, long time happily married, 3 adult DC.
I've never had a high sex drive, never fancy sex though throughly enjoy it when I have it.
In the past year or so I've become completely aroused while watching a certain player compete in sport. Totally twanging loins, uncomfortably so.
It's both televised and in person, though a lot more obvious when it's real life presence. I think I feel it when I see him on television because it's become habitual or associated with remembered feelings.
I watch this sport regularly both locally and at international (set in England) whilst sitting next to DH and I feel like a teenager with a pash, but it's a more physical rather than lovestruck reaction.
Actually starting to think of stopping watching the sport, which will be hard to come up with a plausible reason to cover the truth.
AIBU to think this is concerning?
YABU - this is a weird, something to be concerned about.
YANBU, accept it's part of hormonal vagaries?
I'm sad.