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To sack my cleaner?

81 replies

BigLittleRedOne · 29/11/2024 09:46

Just want to preface this with stating that I realise I am lucky to have a cleaner, and I realise many people don't.

I've had the same cleaner for 8/9 years. She is very good, thorough and it is a lifesaver as both partner and I work full time and have two (messy) kids and a couple of pets.

She currently is due to come once a fortnight.

HOWEVER she is very unreliable. She has a lot of health issues and so do her family. Most of her cancellations are due to this. But she lets me down so often and usually when I'm desperate for the house to be cleaned (today it's cos we've got guests arriving this evening for the weekend)

I've just counted up and in the last 6 months she has cancelled 7 times (out of 12!)

The trouble is I feel a loyalty to her, she's a nice person, I've known her a long time and the cancellations are genuine health issues. But I want to be able to rely on her and I need this support!

I don't know what to do.

OP posts:
CaptainWinkie · 29/11/2024 20:54

Mirabai · 29/11/2024 20:17

Is that what Stephen Hawking was doing? It’s not usual to continue working with MND. People make different choices..

I don't remember Stephen Hawking calling any disabled people lazy.

Mirabai · 29/11/2024 21:10

What’s that got to do with working through an extreme disability?

His advice to other disabled people was: “concentrate on things your disability doesn't prevent you doing well, and don't regret the things it interferes with. Don't be disabled in spirit, as well as physically.”

CaptainWinkie · 29/11/2024 21:24

Mirabai · 29/11/2024 21:10

What’s that got to do with working through an extreme disability?

His advice to other disabled people was: “concentrate on things your disability doesn't prevent you doing well, and don't regret the things it interferes with. Don't be disabled in spirit, as well as physically.”

Nothing. She could have said that she works through it without saying it was lazy not to.

Mirabai · 29/11/2024 21:28

Ok you’re more interested in griping about another poster..

gmgnts · 30/11/2024 08:57

Oh wow, this thread took a dark turn with competitive stoicism and name-calling 🙄. Get another cleaner if yours isn't reliable, it's the sensible option. Lots of suggestions on this thread about how to let her go gently.

herewegoagain1960s · 30/11/2024 09:57

Goodness. I've got a cleaner. She doesn't touch the tops of books or ornaments or run her long handled duster over wardrobe tops etc.

She's not been for a few weeks as I'm having some building work but I was doing a better job myself periodically. She's better at bathroom cleaning than me though :-( I really need to let her go and just do it myself.

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