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Accepted a low paying job - should my work reflect this?

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bluerooms · 27/11/2024 23:50

I recently took a low paying job, it pays £13.50 an hour.
I have been self employed but had a dip in client work & was under pressure by dh because we have a wedding to pay for.
This way it's stable income and any client work is a bonus.
Pre self employment days my hourly salary would've been around £20ph (£35 self employed)
Being honest, my heart isn't going to be in this job at all, and the pay doesn't help matters.
Btw I am aware that this is potentially selfish and Ive taken a job I don't want that someone else might've loved but needs must etc.
Anyway, I knew i'd get the job due to my experience vs what they were paying. So now my question is, do I work like i'm worth what i've been paid previously or do I work a bit more than the bare minimum to reflect the £1 more than min wage they are paying me? (From April 25 anyway) ??

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SurelyNotAnother · 28/11/2024 09:02

I really would not be able to do the bare minimum in any area of life. I like to do a good job and have pride in whatever I am doing. It would almost be more of an effort to work out how not to work hard.

was under pressure by dh because we have a wedding to pay for.
This seeps with resentment. Why did your partner have to pressurise you to work? Why don’t you want to do your bit and finance the wedding? Why is it his responsibility?

CoffeeGood · 28/11/2024 09:06

I've worked minimum wage jobs and well paid jobs, for good bosses and bad ones and I've always gone above and beyond. Not because of the money but because of pride in myself and my own work ethic. I take pride in doing my best, and personally feel that the attitude of just doing the minimum because the wage is low is very poor and I imagine quite demoralising in the long run.

severyyhv · 28/11/2024 09:08

It really depends on the job. I worked as a family support worker on £13 per hour roughly 7 years ago. I had a heavy case load working with vulnerable children, delivered parenting classes attended safeguarding and Sen meetings. I was contracted for 24 hours a week but ended up doing about 40 hours a weeks to get the paperwork done making my wage at around £8 an hour!! Never again.

My current job is £13.50 and i go to work exactly on time , leave on time and never think about it in between.

U53rName · 28/11/2024 09:10

I took a low-ish paying job, which enabled me to do the school run every day, and I worked just as hard as ever. Once I was no longer needed at the school gates, a promotion and a hefty pay raise were waiting for me.

Is there potential for growth, or for networking/a glowing reference?

NetDesMamans1 · 28/11/2024 09:10

AgnesX · 28/11/2024 06:52

How about you just do the job to the best of your ability and to the standard required. £13.50 is more than a lot of people get per hour.

Apart from anything thing else it might come back to bite you.

Thank you for saying this. I earn less than £13.50 in my care assistant job, and it is very hard work, physically, mentally and emotionally.

Ceeceele · 28/11/2024 09:11

ZippyLilacStork · 28/11/2024 06:55

It depends whether it is low paid for the role or a low paid role.
If the second you have to do it properly.

This. Anything that affects other people do it properly

Ponoka7 · 28/11/2024 09:13

56Chandeliers · 28/11/2024 08:12

Not going above and beyond in a low paid job leads to neglect and abuse? Ridiculous. The fact people are underpaid and under appreciated for vital jobs is not the op’s problem - it is a poor state of affairs how these workers are treated and rewarded, not a template for how working life should be.

And when did simply doing the job expected, no more or less, as the poster quoted said = not performing, underperforming or neglect? Surely it’s not ‘above and beyond’ if anything less is unacceptable?

Op - I agree with a previous poster in saying underperforming is likely to get you down. I wouldn’t go there and I don’t think it’s fair on others, but I’d certainly not be busting a gut either.

You've obviously never worked in social care/care home settings were things slowly drop because people decide to work to their pay structure. In a lot of the SW and Maternity units, the issues has been the culture and it starts with a lack of pride in your work. It's always nice to be told that you stand out amongst the other staff, but when you aren't doing anything remarkable, it's also depressing. I know people who work in shops who won't pack bags/open doors etc for (disabled/elderly) people and I can't imagine it does much for their MH.

hyperkid · 28/11/2024 09:13

Took an almost 50% pay cut to go from a very skilled in-person professional job to a remote starter position at a more family-friendly employer. I work to the best of my ability for them as I take pride in what I do and appreciate and respect my colleagues and their experience.

Hopefully, eventually this will be seen and acknowledged and I will be able to progress.

PickAChew · 28/11/2024 09:19

Surely you do the job you signed up for without arbitrarily deciding that you're only being paid for a proportion of it. TBH your OP just sounds like a roundabout way of saying that low earners must be lazy.

TheDandyLion · 28/11/2024 09:21

If it were me they'd get all my effort but not all of my knowledge.

anniegun · 28/11/2024 09:23

This is why employing older people feels like a risk to companies. They will not out the maximum effort in because they feel the job is beneath them

MyHangryWriter · 28/11/2024 09:26

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andydidnt · 28/11/2024 09:26

This is what puts us off recruiting people with more experience than the job requires (I admit it verges on ageism), they won't try, they won't work hard and won't demonstrate any enthusiasm - their work to rule will affect the morale of other members of the team.
OP I suggest you do yourself and your employer a favour and go get a job that suits your level of experience and gives you the salary you think you deserve.

FurryFlowers · 28/11/2024 09:27

Do the job to the best of your ability but do not go above and beyond unless it's a care role .

user1471556818 · 28/11/2024 09:31

Whaleandsnail6 · 28/11/2024 07:14

You should do the job to the best of your ability. You took the job knowing the wage.

I dont agree that low wage justifies doing a poor job or putting minimum effort in...some of the most important job roles are minimum wage eg care work, childcare ...the people supported by those roles deserve workers who care about their job and put effort in (I say this as someone who has previously done care work and knows how hard a job it is)

Absolutely do your best .

Forgottenwhatitwas · 28/11/2024 09:32

I wouldn't take a job I wasn't prepared to put any effort into personally. I took a big drop in pay and level of responsibility after our kids were born but I still do my best, for the sake of my colleagues as much as anything else. It's not fair to slack off.

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SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 28/11/2024 09:41

Don’t be led by resentment. You applied for the job; do a good job for your own self respect at least.

potatocakesinprogress · 28/11/2024 09:45

It's a moot point because with your attitude you aren't going to last five minutes.

Most important thing in any job at that level is a can do attitude.

In addition to what other people have said, you're never going to increase your pay if you're doing the minimum. Why people think of jobs like benefits and they'll still be getting the same in 2 or 3 or 5 years' time I'll never understand. It's your starting point, not your final income for life.

Bluenoodles · 28/11/2024 09:46

Presumably you can't get a better paying job, or you wouldn't be taking this lowly one. That pay is what someone is prepared to pay for your skills, either keep looking for someone to pay you what you feel you are worth, or suck it up and get doing what they're paying you for.

MildredSauce · 28/11/2024 09:46

Place marking as it will be interesting to see if @bluerooms finds the role the doddle they seem to think it will be and whether they manage to temper that stinking attitude.

For anyone on linkedin, there's a fab post doing the rounds right now about a woman who has started work as a temp worker at tesco and LOVES the job so much after an appalling experience with redundancy and toxic workplaces. worth searching out and a breath of fresh air after all this nonsense.

andydidnt · 28/11/2024 09:50

Dh had a phone call from an ex CFO of a big company, ex after a restructuring, asking if dh if he knew of any opportunities. Dh asked around and the only thing he came up with was a Junior Accountant role, the guy applied and got the job. He stayed in his lane but he did an absolutely fabulous job - navigated the tricky over-qualified bit - didn't get all uppity when he was managed by someone who would have been a very junior member of the team in his last job. Dh said he handled the situation with determination, hard work and humility, everyone found him a pleasure to work with. The role of CFO came up the following year and he got it.
It's hard when you recruit not to see people with experience behave like the OP, it's hard to believe they will do a great job and not unsettle everyone with their dissatisfaction - but we have to believe the OP is an exception - one we'd try to get rid of before we were stuck with them.

BoldAmberDuck · 28/11/2024 09:51

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 28/11/2024 07:09

I'm on minimum wage and work to the best of my ability.

I'm a little bit annoyed that you're saying your wage is low. It's about the same or more than our registered veterinary nurses, receptionists, admin staff, VCAs and pharmacy staff get paid.

If we under-performed we could have dead animals on our hands.

Yes it’s about the same as an Admin role in the police and we all work to the best of our ability and put everything into it. I think most public sector workers are paid about that much unless in management

EmotionalSupportBiscuit · 28/11/2024 09:54

You work at the level of the person you were at interviewed and who they selected.

You don’t now get to decide that it’s beneath you.

Eddielizzard · 28/11/2024 10:01

Do the best you can, don't be an arse, don't mooch around like it's beneath you. You never know what opportunities might open up, but if you act like a twat those will pass you by.

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