Hi everyone
I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now.
Since we got together, I've had thrush three times, and a suspected, persistent UTI which I currently have. I've taken two different types of antibiotics from the pharmacist and I'm off to the GP now as neither have worked.
Anyway, two months ago, I started thinking that the thrush I was getting was weird. I was also getting pain during sex sometimes. My boyfriend is quite big so I spoke to him and we just put it down to being too rough. I've asked him multiple times since the end of September if everything's ok with him down there as I was suspecting an STD. He said he was fine so i ruled it out.
On Sunday however, he told me he had a pain in his balls that's been getting worse for the past few weeks. He said it's been going on for about 9 months now. He's been to the doctor today and she said it's either caused by an STD or UTI and she ruled out a UTI on the day and told him to get tested for STDs.
Now I'm worried that this UTI is actually just an STD that's getting worse and showing symptoms as I must've had it since we got together. Would explain why the antibiotics aren't working. I've not ordered an at home STD test that could've been ordered a few months ago if he had been honest.
Am I right to feel annoyed that he wasn't honest with me that he actually had symptoms? I asked him multiple times on different days if there was anything up with him and he said no. If he'd even mentioned the pain, I would've gone to get tested.