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How to stimulate a ' clever ' 2 and a half year old that seems to act up when bored

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damdams · 26/11/2024 20:58

What kind of things can I / nursery do to stimulate a bored child more ?

OP posts:
dreamer24 · 26/11/2024 22:18

Maths activities? Like counting etc? My DD's nursery do this sort of thing with her and they've told me she's operating at reception class level (she's 3.5 and doesn't start reception til next Sept). Perhaps your DD could do something like this if she's really advanced? 🙂

NeedSomeComfy · 26/11/2024 22:24

damdams · 26/11/2024 22:02

Go away..

I actually wasn't being snarky to you, sorry if that's the way it came across! I just saw some other people's (obviously ridiculous) suggestions and it reminded me of that one so I posted it. But I do know that's know what you meant for your child.

Westofeasttoday · 26/11/2024 22:28

TwistedSisters · 26/11/2024 21:12

😂

Also don’t forget astrophysics, organic chemistry, applied physics and English literature.

Your kid is 2.5. Please don’t flatter yourself (or your child). They aren’t bored they either don’t have a good attention span or don’t like the activities. Whoever told you this is feeding you porkie pies.

Stonefromthehenge · 26/11/2024 22:32

What dies she do at home, and how fies she behave? Maybe it's just not right for her, too much structure, too little, over or under stimulated. I'd say observe her at home, what works? Advise the nursery or find a setting that suits her better.

SqueegieBeckenheimer · 26/11/2024 22:41

OUTDOOR PLAY.

thatsawhopperthatlemon · 26/11/2024 23:57

damdams · 26/11/2024 21:51

There has been talk of moving to the older kids room, yes.

Why don't they just move her then, it seems like the obvious solution. She's bored, they know she's bored, they have told you she's bored. It is literally their job to A - ensure that she isn't bored, and B - to teach her how to behave.

If she's misbehaving because she's bored, then the answer is staring them in the face.

Pickandmixmood · 27/11/2024 00:07

Open university?

Craftymam · 27/11/2024 00:07

Find out her interests at home. Send her in with stuff to show.

My ds is 2.5 loves hot wheels so we got a magazine and he took that in and they made an activity out of it.

MumChp · 27/11/2024 04:11

damdams · 26/11/2024 21:39

I don't really want to do academic stuff yet.

I prefer the idea of building things or puzzles.

Open to other (non academic ) ideas

Teach a foreign language. Not in the academic way but in reading, storytelling, dance, sing, play - have fun together!

User37482 · 27/11/2024 04:21

Mine is bright, we focussed on physical activity. She did go to an excellent nursery where they taught phonics and numbers which was helpful, she was meaningfully engaged with something and she enjoyed it, her teachers were really attentive and stretched her a bit as well. She could occupy herself though, she rarely got bored because she would pick up random things from the shelves to have a look at, different kinds of puzzles etc. but she would get up and find something else to do if she was disinterested in the teacher led activity. She’s lucky her teacher has a sense of humour.

But what she really needed was a A LOT of exercise. She became extremely active around 2.5 enough that it was commented on by her teacher. She’s still very bright but also quite fit now. If she picks things up easily then she needs a more challenging environment but I would also round it out with trying things she may find difficult.

A lot of her behaviour sounds kind of normal to me for a 2yr old, they like running around and some still snatch. Take her swimming or football tots and wear her out a bit.

mm81736 · 27/11/2024 06:09

There should be lots of open-ended activities at nursery for her to engage with and explore and extend her play.
Does she watch a lot of screens at home? What does she like to play at home?

M 4th

GutsyBiscuit · 27/11/2024 16:14

NeedSomeComfy · 26/11/2024 22:24

I actually wasn't being snarky to you, sorry if that's the way it came across! I just saw some other people's (obviously ridiculous) suggestions and it reminded me of that one so I posted it. But I do know that's know what you meant for your child.

I didn't read it as sparky at all. It was clearly a funny little anecdote related to the topic, not directly to the OP.

ForLovingTealSheep · 03/08/2025 11:57

damdams · 26/11/2024 20:58

What kind of things can I / nursery do to stimulate a bored child more ?

Hi OP any updates please ?

ImthatBoleyngirl · 11/08/2025 18:26

My DD gets bored really easily but that's because she's got ADHD.

Edit: just seen this is an old thread 🤦🏼‍♀️

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