Ok so basically my partner cheated on me 2 times 2 years ago so he does have form but said he’s changed and wants to settle and wouldn’t do that now!
he was working away few mths ago and went out with 2 guys from work and another woman she’s young a promo girl for the business he did the work on I don’t hear from him all night, the next day at home he said he thinks the boss took her Bach to the hotel he said I hope not as he’s married my mind was ticking thinking was it really my partner as I can’t see the boss doing it, fast forward to Friday night was the opening night for a new bar he’s just done the same girl came and I went my partner was off with me all night saying go away avoiding me he was standing with her laughing and joking and talking lots of times when I walked over she walked off and he said nasty things and stormed off, then he disappeared I found out he checked into a hotel the same hotel she happened to be staying at, I went there as he took my phone I didn’t see in his room the porter got it and I left, I didn’t hear from him till 1 pm the next day he said he left and got a hotel to avoid arguing he said nothing is going on and he doesn’t no if it’s the boss who’s seeing her but it’s not him I went to speak with the boss and told him my partner and another work lad said it’s him everyone is now arguing the boss has blocked my partner and my partners business partner is now saying he needs to make a choice to get rid of me after all Trouble I’ve caused ? But I want the one who stayed out all night but I’m getting the blame is it me am I paranoid and making it all up because he’s cheated before I feel so anxious and stressed