I need advice. I am a man, I have been married for 10 years with 2 children. I thought we were happy, however, 3 months ago my wife started to move away and after 2 months she asked for space to think about her life and her business. We have very different opinions, I'm very logical, she's quite sentimental. At home we divide all the tasks. As an employee, I never brought work home, from the moment I left the door of work I forgot everything. The 1st thing my wife told me was that I never supported her in her business, and that I'm trying to destroy her but that I won't be able to. I wondered how I can destroy someone simply for doing nothing, but it should be possible. Since we had our conversation, I've been trying to change as much as possible to try to converge our opinions and way of thinking, however because we are at opposite poles I can only get so far (half). I feel that on her side there was no effort in this direction. We are not close as I said 2 months ago, without any intimacy or closeness. Today I tried to give her a hug and she pushed me away. So now comes my question. How long should I give space and wait? I honestly think life is short and if she doesn't want to be with me, who am I to be with her. Maybe the best thing is to move on despite the 2 children and ask for a divorce. How long should i wait? Advice please.