Wow, that's expensive.
I'm a solo parent earning half that but paying 100% of the bills inc nursery without the second wage earner.
I do see a reduction in my nursery bill since the 15hours kicked in and will again in a year when the 30hours kicks in for my child. Inflation is rampant, so I'm sure I'll see less of a difference than I've been hoping for, and I get charged extras. But child loves nursery, she's safe, happy and it's been great for her social skills and development.
I can't cover my mortgage, childcare and basic bills with my salary at the moment, so don't really do much or socialise at the weekends/holidays with my child because I can't afford to rack up more debt, so I'm happy she gets a lot of enrichment during the week and is happy low-key pottering around with me at home or the park at the weekend.
I think it's wrong that things like subsidised nursery or the cap on tax free childcare aren't truly universal.
All societies need universal provision of the fundamental things that benefit us all, and for all citizens to be access those.
It's strange to have these income cliff-edged policies and I don't think it makes long term economic sense, it makes people feel polarised or disfranchised, not something that I believe leads to a 'good' healthy society.