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AIBU?

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DD Class Friends Mom

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Busymomof3 · 15/11/2024 09:44

Dear readers

My DD has BF because of her learning difficulties dyslexia etc I had her moved to a more appropriate school thinking I had made the right decision 2 years on she suffered bullying exclusion and teachers wouldn't do a thing about it.

So I decided as she had missed 20 days last year alone to move her back to her old school she was very happy about this as she plays sports with a few of the girls at her school etc.

She befriended her old BF again she was very happy about this even though she had to repeat a class so is a class behind now but all been taught by Same teacher as both classes in same classroom.

She asked to sit beside her as they were allowed to pick who to sit beside.
Yesterday they got moved she's upset about it I know for a fact it's BFs mom she doesn't like me.

Back 2 years ago I live in social housing SM with 3, kids. Didn't choose this but didn't work out with DP.
I work so my best bring my DC up as good as I can teach them to show respect to others good manners teachers always praise them so I must be doing something right!

Have them in sports.
She is of the opinion I'm a SM living in social housing and I know she looks down on me so has decided my DD isn't good enough for her DD.

Just find it so hurtful she would go and call the school and have them moved because if her opinions!! Of me!!
I have never done anything to her the only thing that did happen was my tyre was slashed as I have really bad neighbors her DD and my DD were at dance it was my turn to drive and she backed off straight away after that.

Nothing else has happened we live in a small town.
On Monday I see her at local cafe I say hi (more to annoy her as I know she's a snob!)
Anyways her DD says it to my DD at school that her mom saw me at cafe I was like oh yeah I saw her she was with a man and women and my DD says it back next day they get switched
AIBU????

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Hankunamatata · 29/12/2024 15:43

So you were taking each other's kids to classes and you got your tyre slashed and couldn't take the girls so she stopped talking to you?

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 29/12/2024 16:05

Children fall out with each other and change their best friends all the time, it may have nothing at all to do with this girl's mum. It might feel better to focus on your own family and support your daughter and forget about this woman. If she really does look down on you for living in social housing then that's her problem - but she may not at all.

SleepingStandingUp · 29/12/2024 16:23

So, she tells her kid that she saw her in a cafe. Next day her kid come home and says yes, Jess said her Mom saw you with a man and a woman in the cafe. And she immediately phoned the school and demands that your kids no longer sit in class together.

Why?

Why do you think that alone would make her Mom do that, and with significant enough reason for the teacher to be obliged to comply?

BigSilly · 29/12/2024 17:36

They are more likely to have been separated because they are in different year groups

Busymomof3 · 29/12/2024 18:54

Yeah we were friendly enough before the Incident with my tyre.
Girls are still friendly and actually had a play date last wknd I keep my distance with the mom can even tell she would rather their not Friends but that's her issue not mine.
So will forget her now and if girls want to hang out then thats fine.
Thanks for your replies readers.

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