I don’t know what the point of this is but just to see what advice people have really or their take on it.
Me and my sister don’t get along at all- she’s massively changed. She isn’t the best mentally and used to be very unstable like she would self harm and joke about it, threaten to harm herself as a joke and laugh if our mum didn’t buy her something etc. anyways, me and her did get along in bursts until she met a new boyfriend. I despise this guy he’s a loser- he does drugs all the time and I just don’t like him. Anyways since she has been with him she has changed majorly so I have just accepted after many attempts that me and my sister are too different with opposing life views so I decided to completely ignore her, block her social media’s and stay away from her. At home I pretend she doesn’t exist and she stays out my room and away from me which suits me.
anyways, today i rang my mum because I hadn’t heard from her all day and usually when I’m away from home (staying with a close friend) she always texts and calls urgently so I called to check in. She just said she was out in the town with my sister buying her stuff. I was at my friend house and mum texted offering to pick me up the next day she said she couldn’t do the original time she said as she had to pick up my sisters boyfriend (driving 1 hour out her way and he doesn’t even say thanks properly or give my mum petrol money). My sister is always ordering my mum around for her and her boyfriend.
anyways I was a bit annoyed and made a nice but passive comment saying as long as the time was convenient for them. Anyways my sister went on my mother’s phone and called me a “cunt”. After a lot of angry crying I calmed down.
THEN I found that she had sent me an email (don’t know how she knows my email wtf) and sent me a whole barrage of abuse saying how I was jealous of her life and relationship and how my life is garbage and I have all these shortcomings and my relationship is nothing. Basically called me a bad person too. It was a very nasty spiteful email and I’ve been crying for hours over it. I haven’t emailed back or retaliated I’ve just got home and I’m ignoring her and my mum. I am ignoring my mum too because when I called her earlier to tell her about the email she just said shut up and hung the phone up on me. I’m having a mental breakdown now crying and even considered taking a few tablets because I’m so distraught. My sister is definitely my mums favourite too opposed to me and my brother and was the only one who turned out like her.
dunno just wanted to vent I guess, so upset and angry